Zoe7Senior Contributor
Secret Party Planning...
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Zoe7Senior Contributor
A place for all those special occasions that we can celebrate here on the forum to be organised by our team of party planners... ![]()
@CheerBear @Former-Member
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CheerBearSenior Contributor
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Zoe7Senior Contributor
@CheerBear here's a pre-not-birthday present for you ![]()
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Faith-and-HopeSenior Contributor
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OwlunarSenior Contributor
Hi everyone
I had a look to see when this special party is - okay everyone 7th December I believe
I am bringing unicorns - as many as possible
Dec
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CheerBearSenior Contributor
Well that is just about the most amazingly perfect pre-not-birthday present ever @Zoe7 😊 Big tears. Thank you so much! It is truly the most beautiful cake ever!!
I have an idea for yours. Now to find a way on a phone, which I think (hope) I can do. Off to bake (what feels like) 50 thousand sugar cookies for one of mine for school, and then I will have a go at a virtual non-birthday cake for you 😁
Ps - invitation? Dress up theme? Outdoor lighting (Lunar has this one if we need!)?
@Owlunaris on to the unicorns. There can never be enough of them (I think) 😉
Pps also totally following your lead here and happy to work around what feels right.
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Zoe7Senior Contributor
I would like to help organise this party for you @CheerBear I really don't even want a not-birthday right now CB but I do want one for you. We have everything ready to go and it will be a good distraction for me to help organise (and stay connected here a little). I really hope you agree to this - it would mean more to me to have a not-party for you than for me to be involved myself ![]()
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I am glad you like it @CheerBear ! Oooh does Cat have an outfit too @Zoe7? I am sure Elsie wouldn't mind making another one 🙂
Also I will take care of the lighting I have this already booked in for night time
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Zoe7Senior Contributor
The lighting is purrrrrfect @Former-Member - I think @CheerBear will absolutely love the rainbow colours ![]()
Cat would love Elsie to make another outfit for her thankyou ![]()
Cat is snuggling up to this t the moment ....

...waiting to give it to CB on her not-birthday ![]()
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CheerBearSenior Contributor
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Zoe7Senior Contributor
I am so happy (and relieved) that you have agreed @CheerBear. It won't be too scary
I'll be around with you but this day should be just for you - one you can look back on when times are a little tough and enjoy all over again
I'll get onto the invitations, and party decorations. Venue and lights are done - now do you want a dress-up theme (eg. everyone dressed as care bears lol) or let everyone choose their own costumes - entirely up to you - I can work with what you decide ![]()
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