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I WOULD LIKE TO MAKE A/OR, FRIEND/FRIENDS, WHO I CAN TRUST, PLEASE?
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I WOULD LIKE TO MAKE A/OR, FRIEND/FRIENDS, WHO I CAN TRUST, PLEASE?
I'm new, & I am very supportive of others, understanding, & kind. I hate strife & arguing, & I can not be around people that yell, or are controlling. I get anxious, & they make me feel afraid, or wanting to protect myself. I think I'm too soft hearted, yet I am intelligent & strong, unless I get fearful. I am very isolated due to physical pain, from an accident I had, years ago.....Does that make sense, I hope so?
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dhr53Senior Contributor
Re: I WOULD LIKE TO MAKE A/OR, FRIEND/FRIENDS, WHO I CAN TRUST, PLEASE?
Hi bella,
i am not sure what to say. I am. Just an ordinary person who probably trusts people to easily. I have faith in people but often they can let you down.
stay well.
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Unknown userMember
Re: I WOULD LIKE TO MAKE A/OR, FRIEND/FRIENDS, WHO I CAN TRUST, PLEASE?
I seriously do not believe there are any "just ordinary", people in this world, @dhr53? No disrespect intended, 🙂 all of us are like diamonds, we have many different facets, that make us all unique, & who we are, as I see it. Even tho some people do let us down, there are a lot that don't let us down. I try to look @ what, or who, has made me smile when I can.
I can see by what you wrote about yourself there.
1. You are a patient, very caring, gentle person. 2, You possibly don't like to stand out in a crowd. Yet when needed you would be someone who is a real wonderful friend. 3, I believe you are a giver, not a taker. 4. I believe that the trust, & the faith, that you have in people is a gift, that was given to you. You see the best in people, & this is not ordinary, not by any means. Thank you so much for wanting me to, stay well. I feel the beauty of your spirit in all that you've written & I'm getting teary now! I'm totally isolated @ the moment due to the health challenges in my life. Thank you for being there to encourage me tonight as I was feeling unwell & alone. Now, you have made me smile! 🙂 You are Special @dhr53 I hope you believe it! Love, Bella! 🙂
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dhr53Senior Contributor
Re: I WOULD LIKE TO MAKE A/OR, FRIEND/FRIENDS, WHO I CAN TRUST, PLEASE?
Can I ask what causes your pain? Thank you for your very kind words.
Dhr53
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Unknown userMember
Re: I WOULD LIKE TO MAKE A/OR, FRIEND/FRIENDS, WHO I CAN TRUST, PLEASE?
I meant what I wrote, you deserve to see yourself, as I believe you were created to be. "A MASTERPIECE"- & they are not my words, they are who, GOD say's, that we all are, @dhr53.🙂
Yes, you sure can ask me anything, within reason, that is! 😉
Back to pain now, well where do I begin? Ok, I live in, Nowra South Coast NSW, I was born in Sydney. Before I moved to Nowra, I had a terrible accident. I knew I was going to have it, just before I did. I was walking in an inner City park. It was lovely weather & I was very fit. I have been very health conscious, most of my life. I came to the top of a huge stair case all made of cement located at the risen side of a picnic spot. 12 stairs, I had platform sandals on, & strong denim jeans. As I placed my right foot on the top stair, I saw myself fall, before I fell. After that I only remember landing on both hands & both knee's on the black gravel. I was stunned, I must have just fell off the top step, just like a cat jumps? Well, I tore out my knee through the strong denim, & had blood running down. My hands were hurt, & a kind lady gave me a nappy pin, to pin up my torn jeans. Ever since then my body has gradually been, one after another showing up damaged places, that are chronic. I'm holding it together with pain killers, & what ever the doctors give me, or do for me to make my life bearable? Just as well I laugh at life sometimes, or I would not be able to handle all this pain. It's horrible, yet I have faith that things may become some what better, one day. I have, & do, research into natural healing. I use lots of natural health products, & I try to keep the faith! I hope you write back to me when you can?
Your Friend! Bella! 🙂
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WritetopeopleContributor
Re: I WOULD LIKE TO MAKE A/OR, FRIEND/FRIENDS, WHO I CAN TRUST, PLEASE?
I am also trying to make friends online because my social anxiety keeps me from going out to meet people. I like to write and love to encourage people (even though I can't seem to encourage myself) I was told by the moderators that I was breaking the rules by posting personal information so I don't know quite how this works. I guess we just respond to each other's posts? I don't like to argue either. I came from a tense home so I wanted my home to be peaceful. I hope you are having a good day.
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Re: I WOULD LIKE TO MAKE A/OR, FRIEND/FRIENDS, WHO I CAN TRUST, PLEASE?
How lovely to meet you @Writetopeople! Welcome, I'm excited you are here! 🙂 Thank you so very much! Yes, it would be a plus if there were some way to meet people in person, or via phone in time? Who knows, maybe there could be a get together arranged for long standing members in the future? Only time will tell, hey? We do seriously need each other, as we all are non judgmental of each other, & very experienced with Mental Health Challenges. Now that would be enough reason, to have a reason, to get together in some form, @ some stage, I believe! 🙂 I understand the issue you have with social anxiety. I have been keeping to myself for so long now. I've become super cautious about, social activities myself & meeting people myself! 😞 You sound sweet to me, I'm here for you anytime , please don't hesitate to write to me, ok? If you want to talk about anything, I am a good listener, alias, reader! 🙂 What is your favourite, hobby, or music, or food, or animal, or place, what ever? @Writetopeople. Do you have something you can talk about with me? I will wait for you response, also my day is ok thanks. I thought my PC went down, as my phone line isn't working properly. Yet, I managed to get my PC to connect, amazing hey? How is your day, going/or been?
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