The Weekly Friday Feast

Hi @TAB ,

I am pretty good but have been a little stressed lately. I sent my best friend a text yesterday because she seems disinterested in talking to me when I ring. She is super busy with her life as she has an adult daughter with disabilities and she tutors as well. She is always super busy and so tired. I don’t want to be a nuisance so I don’t know what to do. I want to stay in contact but I think she thinks I ring too much. So at the moment I am backing off and giving her space. As I said she is my best and pretty much my only friend so it’s hard.

Meggle

Also @TAB @Jacques

I had my NDIS review on Tuesday so that was kind of stressful. Hopefully my plan comes out better this year.

Meggle

Not easy @Oaktree brother did busy think to me. Last time spoke i said dont apologise thats long gone I just dont talk to him anymore. Chased him for years.

School friend barely talks to me last 12mths i txt he rarely replies now. So i send less and less. Yes not easy

@TAB

The thing is I have known my best friend for 24 years. We had a period of a few years where we didn’t talk because I stopped chasing her. She didn’t reach out to me at all during the break and she blames me for submarining. The thing is if I stop calling I know that she won’t call me. Is the friendship more important to me than it is to her? She is very generous with her money but I would rather have time.

Meggle

@TAB

I was in tears yesterday over best friend! It really hurts.

Meggle

Hi @Oaktree hope your knitting went well and you enjoyed it.

I'm sure those blankets will be appreciated.

onlyjust saw this @Oaktree yes its hard I dont know, Ihave been onreceiving end as told you ,if they do not want contct , best not to then, not much can do

I am sorry for your situation @TAB

It’s super hard and isolating.

Meggle

people are still around in my life @Oaktree to be realistic if being pain in butt no one wants to know you , people want to know when things going well for you etc dunno

just got 2 phonecalls ffrom friends today , very rare , ok get emails from one and texts from another .. but tbh i am just spewing misery half the time and they have lives etc lol