Being sent home from hospital too early.

Thanks @Darcy X

@Jo

my son fled the state when his cto was due to expire in case they took him back into hospital and put him on another one.

we do not know exactly where he is.

he is on no medication and his witless father keeps sending him money and stuff.

there is no let up of pressure as his paranoia presents itself in text messages and phone calls. I dont know how he is when not contacting.

Cheese shapes enjoy

a day off tomorrow and just ring for update???

@Former-Member I am so, so sorry to hear what is happening to your son Mohill. What a nightmare !
And what a a terrible shame it is that his father keeps sending him money !!!!
I worked at Father Bob Maguire's soup kitchen for a few years before the church sacked him 'for being too old', which was a lie. (He was more active than most people 20-30 years younger then him) . The truth is that he spent too much of the church money on feeding the homeless at his soup kitchen and on mobile vans distributing food to the homeless futher afield and the church wasn't happy with this . But he was so generous that he often gave cash to the homeless (almost 80% of whom lived with mental illness) who turned up every Tuesday at the soup kitchen.This bit was a bit of a problem because while food and clothes were put to the best of use, the cash always went on alcohol and drugs. Giving away cash is not always a good move.

Licorice Bullets @Former-Member Can't recommend them highly enough. X

@Jo

yes what a lovely kind soul, however gifts of money can cause more harm than good.

his dad cannot express feelings, emotions therefore he feels that he is showing love by supporting him with money. I have given up even going down that track with him.

the silly thing is that my son has now accepted the boundaries I have put in place re money. Not at first, much abuse but on reflection has stopped asking.

i did speak to him the other night and he wanted me to do a transfer from one account to another of his online for him;his internet was down. I saw that he only had $30 left for about 10 days. So I sent $50 of my money as well, with the message buy some healthy food. I see this as my choice not his request.

A very tiring time for you, we can't take away your concerns but we can listen and support you.

take care xx

ps how were the cheese shapes? I have only a few left in my box!!