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Topic Tuesday // Is mental health more challenging for men? // 20 June, 7pm AEST

Topic Tuesday // Is mental health more challenging for men? // 20 June, 7pm AEST

Whether achieving and maintaining mental health is more challenging for men is a question with many different aspects and angles to explore. We are fortunate to be joined by Glen who is an experienced Counsellor with MensLine and someone with a strong commitment to mens mental health. He and @Former-Member will be exploring this topic and responding to your questions and concerns.

So whether your interest or concern relates to your own mental health or that of someone else in your life, please join us for this discussion.

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In response to: Topic Tuesday // Is mental health more challenging for men? // 20 June, 7pm AEST

Re: Topic Tuesday // Is mental health more challenging for men? // 20 June, 7pm AEST

Completely agree @Phoenix_Rising. I bet there are lots of women who would enjoy bonding over projects and power tools.

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Re: Topic Tuesday // Is mental health more challenging for men? // 20 June, 7pm AEST

also men needs hobbies , @Former-Member, I try to encourage my husband to do his hobby as much as he can , he would love to do more of his hobby

Another one i find is expectations , don`t expect everything to go well , go with it and you will be surprised

In response to: Topic Tuesday // Is mental health more challenging for men? // 20 June, 7pm AEST

Re: Topic Tuesday // Is mental health more challenging for men? // 20 June, 7pm AEST

@Adge, you seen this thread? Will look, Thinking of you 🌷🌿

In response to: Topic Tuesday // Is mental health more challenging for men? // 20 June, 7pm AEST

Re: Topic Tuesday // Is mental health more challenging for men? // 20 June, 7pm AEST

I think the next generation of men will hopefully be better educated and not fear seeking help as much. Of my 4 sons I helped my youngest get linked with headspace which helped him immensely and I know he won't fear seeking help now. My eldest got a mental health care plan behind my back and sought help himself which I was really proud of. He was scared of telling me incase it stressed me out. My second eldest was denied a mental health care plan to seek help because he was told his mental health was fine it was everyone else around him with problems which was really unhelpful as he was trying to come to terms with his girlfriend and my mi. My third son has the mentality that it's weak to seek help still which is sad. I think it's much harder for men to reach out and make connections. I think my sons would seek help for themselves but not want to connect with others. Just my 5c worth.

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Re: Topic Tuesday // Is mental health more challenging for men? // 20 June, 7pm AEST

Fabulous list thank you @Adge.

Welcome @Dogman.

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Re: Topic Tuesday // Is mental health more challenging for men? // 20 June, 7pm AEST

5) Yes GROW can help too, although it's not for everyone. I was the Organiser of a GROW group for 4 years.

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Re: Topic Tuesday // Is mental health more challenging for men? // 20 June, 7pm AEST

yes I hope furture generations of men will be better at talking about. so here's to hoping.

Dogman

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Re: Topic Tuesday // Is mental health more challenging for men? // 20 June, 7pm AEST

Sorry to hear that your family and friends are less than supportive @Dogman. Anyone would think they were afraid that they might catch your mental illness if they hung around you. Seems like they weren't very empathetic. Unfortunately, there is a lot of ignorance surrounding mental illness.

Mind you in saying that, it isn't uncommon for people to develop anxiety and stress disorders from the pressure of caring for others with a MI.

In response to: Topic Tuesday // Is mental health more challenging for men? // 20 June, 7pm AEST

Re: Topic Tuesday // Is mental health more challenging for men? // 20 June, 7pm AEST

What is so amazing to me as a person who’s worked long term with mental health is how passionate people are on this forum to support each other. It’s great. I just wanted to acknowledge that before I answer any questions.

@Former-Member Like I said earlier…we all know our system isn’t perfect, but remember, just because things perhaps didn’t work out yesterday doesn’t mean that tomorrow won’t be different. I know that can sound like a cliché’, but it’s true. It’s one thing that mental health unrest can cause us to forget too. There can be barriers of course, and they can exist in different ways and at different levels. You may not feel that your psychologist or counsellor isn’t the right one for you…that doesn’t mean that psychology doesn’t work for you…I may just mean that you need a different psychologist or counsellor. You may feel that your medication isn’t doing what it should be…that doesn’t mean you should stop taking your medication…I may just mean that you need to go back to the GP or psychiatrist and have the medication altered. You may feel that your friends or family don’t support you enough and they don’t understand…You may need a different type of support than they have capacity to give, but that doesn’t mean you should go it alone. That’s where services like MensLine Australia can help. We’re on 1300 789 978. My point here is…We may encounter barriers from time to time, mental health is complex and everyone is different so it can take some time to get things stable again. At the core of my advice on this subject there is always the strong suggestion that anyone who is struggling with mental health unrest make a decision to continue seeking support and reaching out to both professional and personal supports until things get better. Just because there’s blockages doesn’t mean that things won’t get better eventually…and there are 24/7 counselling and support services like MensLine that can lend a hand anytime.

In response to: Topic Tuesday // Is mental health more challenging for men? // 20 June, 7pm AEST

Re: Topic Tuesday // Is mental health more challenging for men? // 20 June, 7pm AEST

Thanks for sharing your story @Dogman. I so dearly wish that more people were comfortable discussing mental health. That would reduce so much isolation and pain. What I hear from your post is how very hard you are trying to recover but the real losses you've experienced along the way. It's great to hear that you have receptive mental health professionals at least. Would they ever consider a family session so that more of your family understand your condition and the challenges you're facing?

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