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outlanderSenior Contributor
hi @Former-Member @Determined @Anony18 @soul @Faith-and-Hope
i was lil-caterpillar
im back... i think...
im treading very very lightliy at the moment
@Anony18 i also seen those pics you posted from your hike. they were beautiful and also the artworks too thank you for thinking of me
F&H - i also read on my depression thread as well. thank you for careing even though i left
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outlanderSenior Contributor
@Owlunar@Anony18
thank you both for your concern
im going to another gp tomorrow morning. it still doesnt feel right. my whole breast is sore and its really painful. and it often burns. it sue to be isolated to jsut that one spot that was panful now its the whole lot including it starting to radiate to my under arm and nipple as well (sorry any guys)
no i dont feel as its its fine at all
im hoping the bad nausea is the stress im under and its not a spreading infection
i didnt sleep much at all, im too stressed about alot of things and night times are always the worst!
its just one thing after another today and im not coping with it and i dont know how im going to continue coping with it. IM WORN OUT AND EXHAUSTED AND IN PAIN and no one seems to care in life form!
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Anony18Senior Contributor
@outlander - big hugs! What @CheerBear stated about visualising a STOP sign. Will that help? I think sometimes when we get exhausted and overwhelmed, we need to stop, take a step back, reassess what next.
I am sure will adjust eventually to this new role. Just got to figure my way around and cannot expect that immediately 
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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Anony18Senior Contributor
My day was not too bad @outlander. The people at work seem nice. Am not on forums as frequently as new workplace and big screens so I try be discrete where I can. Please excuse me if I am not as responsive as before.
I can imagine how the visit tomorrow is nerve wrecking. Definitely ask all the questions you need to. Deep breathes and I be there holding your hand through it all 💕
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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Anony18Senior Contributor
It is hard @outlander when my screen is facing everyone and no longer away facing a window.
Good luck today and let me know how you go. Here with you xx
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Anony18Senior Contributor
Have you gone in yet @outlander? Hope you have my friend
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outlanderSenior Contributor
@Anony18@Owlunar ive jsut updated my hospital thread instead of writing it on two threads
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