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Woman30Casual Contributor
In response to: When your husband doesn't socialise. Is this normal??
getbetterSenior Contributor
Hello @Shaz51 I catastrophize and ruminate about the future, it really saps your energy and puts you in a dark place.
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Shaz51Senior Contributor
It does @getbetter, but you have to think of now my friend 
I have kidney disease stage 4 with only one kidney working at 24 %
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getbetterSenior Contributor
Hello @Shaz51 I am sorry to here that, If I could take that illness for you I would.
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Shaz51Senior Contributor
I know my friend @getbetter so would my hubby my friend xx
so keep going my friend @getbetter, we are with you all the way
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Shaz51Senior Contributor
Heloo @Woman30, @getbetter, @Queenie, @Flower88, @utopia,, @Former-Memberxx
today I have been thinkingof you all today , love to hear from you ,hope you are ok
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Unknown userMember
Hello @Shaz51
How are you feeling today, cold easing up at all? Thinking of you too afternoon tea time? xx
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Shaz51Senior Contributor
Hello @Former-Member, I have a sore neck a headache today with a cough
afternoon tea sounds nice @Former-Member
we went and done the food shopping for us and my mum , when we took the shopping to mum , hubby just wanted to go home
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Shaz51Senior Contributor
the afternoon tea looks totally awesome @Former-Member
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Unknown userMember
I made it just for you @Shaz51 that sounds really painful having a sore neck and a cough, that gets terribly tiring and coughs take a while to go away 😞
That is good you got that shopping done and took your mum, how nice of you
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Shaz51Senior Contributor
thankyou @Former-Member , brought some nighties and slippers for mum today 
hope your mum is ok xx
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