Hi Amber,
How debilitating for both of you! It is amazing that you function at all.
Yes I have bp and I suffer from migraines. I don't get them very often any more thank god. I'll list what I have sussed about mine and hopefully some of it might help:
Reducing them by:
- keep well hydrated, plenty of water particularly
- minimise caffeine (max 2-3 cuppas/day for me) and alcohol intake
- wear sunglasses on bright days (don't need to be flash -from the harware store about $15) even if cloudy and/or mid-winter
- minimise stress, lots of quiet time, as high BP makes them worse/more frequent
- sleeping well, if not sleeping try to rest in bed during "usual' sleep hours (even if reading because a bit racey or triggered)
- avoid SSRI drugs (my worst ever migraines, unrelenting for weeks and could barely function, caused by these meds) not recommended for bp anyway I'm told by my psych
- deal with the underlying (emotional and/or physical) issues causing the tension
Treatment:
- when needed treat it early if possible; rest, quiet, paracetamol, sleep, Mersyndol, Imigran (worked for me when I could get the nazal spray) - in roughly that order
- strangely someone once told me that having a caffeine hit (Coke or latte) with ibuprofen (and food) was good, and it did work for me sometimes but as both of these are not great to take lots of I don't use this one any more
- avoid Tramadol as a treatment (some doctors prefer it), made my nausea worse - also very slow acting
I hope at least some of this is helpful. It is amazing that you can care for yourself let alone your son too. Take care.
Best regards,
Kristin