Life after I lost my husband to suicide. Here to help.

Hi @Vikki

Thanks for your kind thoughts

There are so many of us battling with the pain of a suicide close to us - just reading the other posts here - and I think every loss in this way is harder than most other ways of losing people - it is such a waste

I am amazed that it doesn't show - and even when I tell people in passing I find they have not heard - I puzzle about that - and let it go - maybe the thought is so scary people just don't hear at times

And we get told we are strong - I hardly understand that because I do not feel strong either -

I wish people would not do it - how many people here have been hurt by a suicide - luckily we can talk about it here - there are places where it cannot be mentioned - and this is so hard on those of us who live with it every day -

Yes - it does cause other people to feel all sorts of emotions they most likely would rather not feel if we talk about losing a loved on to suicide - but it is reality

I care about everyone who posted here but right now I can't respond to everyone

@DeeElysia@Former-Member@Zoe7@Former-Member

All of you have contributed to Vikki's post and have your own stories - some of you I don't even know

Dec

I lost my partner and myself and everyone blames me I have a 4 year old daughter and I don't know how to cope I'm completely alone