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Re: Complex PTSD - Depression - Anxiety - ADD - Fibro Myalgia/Chronic Fatigue - How do you "get over it"?
Sorry it's taken me so long to reply @outlander 💜💟☕
Putting up boundaries is always hard in the beginning ,especially when you're living with them. It sounds like things might get easier for you when your mum, her boyfriend and your sisters move out.
If there's something you feel very strongly about that you don't want to do for them anymore, that could be a good place to start saying no.
That's how I started.
I still remember the first time I saud no to something huge. But I knew I couldn't do it anymore.
It ended up in a huge argument ,but I gave my parents warning and said this is the last time I'm doing this, please don't ask again.
But do what feels right outlander. Hopefully you'll know when it's right for you to start saying no.
I don't think your family will be happy about it, so you need to be prepared for that.
It took a long time for big changes to happen with me. Now I stay away from my family altogether. There's alot more involved, it's a very long story.
My traumas were practically ignored which still hurts, so I'll keep away from them.
Is it soon that your mum etc are moving?
At least you won't have to cook and clean for them anymore.
It's so slow to type on my phone.
I've been home all day.
Feeling the same.
I hope you had some good in your day.
☕🍰
Putting up boundaries is always hard in the beginning ,especially when you're living with them. It sounds like things might get easier for you when your mum, her boyfriend and your sisters move out.
If there's something you feel very strongly about that you don't want to do for them anymore, that could be a good place to start saying no.
That's how I started.
I still remember the first time I saud no to something huge. But I knew I couldn't do it anymore.
It ended up in a huge argument ,but I gave my parents warning and said this is the last time I'm doing this, please don't ask again.
But do what feels right outlander. Hopefully you'll know when it's right for you to start saying no.
I don't think your family will be happy about it, so you need to be prepared for that.
It took a long time for big changes to happen with me. Now I stay away from my family altogether. There's alot more involved, it's a very long story.
My traumas were practically ignored which still hurts, so I'll keep away from them.
Is it soon that your mum etc are moving?
At least you won't have to cook and clean for them anymore.
It's so slow to type on my phone.
I've been home all day.
Feeling the same.
I hope you had some good in your day.
☕🍰
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Re: Complex PTSD - Depression - Anxiety - ADD - Fibro Myalgia/Chronic Fatigue - How do you "get over it"?
Thanks for popping by @CheerBear 😙💗💟🐝☕🍰
Thinking of you and hoping that your week turns out well.
Hoping your break will be good.
Bug hugs to you. 👋💕
It's been a home day for me again no news here.
Thinking of you and hoping that your week turns out well.
Hoping your break will be good.
Bug hugs to you. 👋💕
It's been a home day for me again no news here.
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outlanderSenior Contributor
Re: Complex PTSD - Depression - Anxiety - ADD - Fibro Myalgia/Chronic Fatigue - How do you "get over it"?
@Former-Member yeah i know it takes forever thats why if i have to write a really long post ill write a short reply then write a long one when i jump on the computer but i let whoever it is know thats what im doing
yes things will get easier in a sense but i will still have the mornign and afternoon responsibilities so still quite alot
i dont know what feels right anymore Bella
ive tried saying no to quite a few things but my brain and being pestered makes it hard to ignore and jsut get up and do it. i want to change that though.thank you for all your help too 
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Unknown userMember
Re: Complex PTSD - Depression - Anxiety - ADD - Fibro Myalgia/Chronic Fatigue - How do you "get over it"?
Night night @outlander 😴💟
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outlanderSenior Contributor
Re: Complex PTSD - Depression - Anxiety - ADD - Fibro Myalgia/Chronic Fatigue - How do you "get over it"?
Good night @Former-Member ❤
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Unknown userMember
Re: Complex PTSD - Depression - Anxiety - ADD - Fibro Myalgia/Chronic Fatigue - How do you "get over it"?
Thinking of you @CheerBear
Am with you. You are a strong person and will be home in no time. 💗💟👋☕🍰
Thinking of you too @outlander 💟👋
Am with you at gp. ☕🍰
Am hiding on here as I have a terrible headache, aching all over. Oh and dermatitis itching . The joys.
Wanted to say, thanks for being there. 😙
Am with you. You are a strong person and will be home in no time. 💗💟👋☕🍰
Thinking of you too @outlander 💟👋
Am with you at gp. ☕🍰
Am hiding on here as I have a terrible headache, aching all over. Oh and dermatitis itching . The joys.
Wanted to say, thanks for being there. 😙
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outlanderSenior Contributor
Re: Complex PTSD - Depression - Anxiety - ADD - Fibro Myalgia/Chronic Fatigue - How do you "get over it"?
@Former-Member beautiful 💓💓💓 im with you too
Hopefully that headaches gone soon and u start to feel better
Gtg ultrasounds are up
Hopefully that headaches gone soon and u start to feel better
Gtg ultrasounds are up
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Unknown userMember
Re: Complex PTSD - Depression - Anxiety - ADD - Fibro Myalgia/Chronic Fatigue - How do you "get over it"?
😙❤💪☕🍰 @outlander
Will check in later to see how gp apt went.
Will check in later to see how gp apt went.
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outlanderSenior Contributor
Re: Complex PTSD - Depression - Anxiety - ADD - Fibro Myalgia/Chronic Fatigue - How do you "get over it"?
no worries @Former-Member hopefully you start to feel better soon
my results are up but i put them on my thread instead of writing it everywhere
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CheerBearSenior Contributor
Re: Complex PTSD - Depression - Anxiety - ADD - Fibro Myalgia/Chronic Fatigue - How do you "get over it"?
Having a virtual cuppa at the moment because I'm caffeine free here today from now @Former-Member 😮
🍵☕🍰☕
Thinking of you 💛
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Thinking of you 💛
