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ok @Former-Member I have noticed stuff like this too.I don't know the exact circumstance you are referring to so I'll talk in general.

It happens, and it is insensitive, but you mustn't leave the forums because of it. Stick to the people you know and trust. The people who understand you the most. The ones that help you in a way that makes you feel better. That is part of self care. It hurts when that happens, but it does happen, unfortunately. But we love you here... you don't bother us in any way at all. You are very respectful and thoughtful, to a point you put us over yourself. So please don't leave. Sometimes people make bad decisions. This is one of those times. Don't you make a bad decision and leave because of it. Turtle Island needs you!!

@Former-Memberif you are more comfortable coming back as someone else. Then do that. I did that.. very briefly. Just remember though.. you are being you here... don't try to be someone else. Doesn't matter what your tag is... you are the person there behind the words and that is what matters, be true to yourself and who you are regardless of the profile name or pic. But that name is not reallly your name, now that I think of it, you named yourself that because of someone else, so maybe in your case you are not that name you have now. So perhaps coming back as someone else is actually more you than what you are now.

I just thought of that, just remembered actually, cos you were scared01 when you were you.. but I think that matters in a way. You need to be you, not a version for someone else. If that makes sense.

I don't know, it's up to you. Do what you think is right but please don't leave us.