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Arranged to meet a friend for coffee this morning I live an half a hour from town arrived to be told it was a big night don't feel like going I also noticed she's out of cigarettes which is the norm on a Saturday I feel used by her as she once said well I can take you off my list for ciggies as I once said no to her request 4 smokes I sewed a peg bag 4 her birthday which she still hasn't started using I've not put it up yet still using icecream container what a waste of time & petrol to catch up with her I'm feeling so disappointed sitting in my car writing this in a car park when a simple message would have been put ok before I travelled into town.
If you are still there, go have a coffee by yourself. That's what I would do. You didn't drive for nothing and waste petrol. Sounds like a really inconsiderate person. I wouldn't let this person ruin my day. I would have something to eat too. At least you know you can't really count on her
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Spitfire1Senior Contributor
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Once I started a little shopping I did actually start to enjoy myself, bought myself a shoe rack to fit in the cupboard been trying to find a decent 1 for awhile, now I've to put it together
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anonymoususerContributor
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I can relate so much - I’m constantly feeling like all my friends hate me. All I want is to be treated normally but everyone has their own lives. I’m proud of you for being the reliable friend and your peg bag sounds awesome
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