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CheerBearSenior Contributor
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@CheerBear you can talk to me anywhere and anytime you want i dont care how old you are 
i dont fit in at all wiht anyone my age at all its not thier fault theyve had a totally different, a 'normal' life without so much trauma and abuse and caring responsibilities. ive been told ive grown up way to fast and i ahve th mind of a 30 yr old and maturity of one too and are they sure im not older @Former-Member@NikNik@CheerBear
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CheerBearSenior Contributor
@Former-Member - I find my friends are now often somewhere between mine and my parents age. (Or 'found' and 'were' -ugh.) LIke you said, lots of people our age are just starting with families. My big fish would almost be old enough to babysit by the time they're toddling! It's kind of like being stuck in the middle of being younger and older sometimes and that's maybe what it's like for you too @Former-Member?
Thank you @Former-Member 🙂 I enjoy talking to you and don't care how old you are either haha 😉
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yeah @CheerBear only there are plenty of people that are my age but i cont really associate with them adn when i do i get turned away and guess what no surprise im hanging.... no was hanging..... out with people in their 30s and not they are ignoring me totally.
i only asked each of them-theres 3- how are you going and that was on monday and surprise they havent msged me back and when they do they just usually say good and then that s it and dont initiate anymore conversation @Former-Member@CheerBear@NikNik@CherryBomb
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how are you guys today? @Former-Member@CheerBear@NikNik@CherryBomb
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CheerBearSenior Contributor
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Hi @CheerBear and @Former-Member
Has been a busy busy day! yes, we've had cake and some other bday food, all good! So tired! now to catch up on the normal weekend catch ups!!!
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thats good @CheerBear
glad your sons enjoying the party @Former-Member ill bet your buggered
im ok for the moment, ive recouped myself and put my mind to good use but setting out a study plan and i had to go shopping as well so ive been able to pull myself up abit
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