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Heartbreak

zanakNew Contributor

Heartbreak

Hi!

i’ recently going through a really difficult time with heartbreak. My partner broke up with me a few days ago and I’ve been so hurt. it seems so unnatural to me how we bond with people deeply love and care for them and then we become strangers who never talk again it feels so unnatural and wrong. To never be able to speak or see him again . I feel like I don’t have any more love in me for anyone. It especially hurts when it felt like he didn’t see me as worth staying for . All the reasons he said it wouldn’t work could easily be fixed. I’m so heartbroken. I don’t know how to live my life without it consuming me .

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Nala2022Moderator

Re: Heartbreak

Hi @zanak

Welcome to the forums, and I’m really sorry you’re going through such a painful time. When someone has been such a big part of your life, having that relationship suddenly end can feel incredibly overwhelming, and I can understand why it feels so unnatural to go from being so close to someone to suddenly not having them in your life

It sounds like you’re carrying a lot of hurt and questioning your own worth because of how things ended. What happened doesn’t determine your worth, even if it feels that way right now

Do you have anyone around you at the moment who you feel comfortable leaning on while you’re going through this? I hope you find the forums a supportive space and that connecting with others here helps you feel a little less alone 💛

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