Tasmania5454Contributor
Do most of us find love or settle?
What/would a woman go near a person who has had failed relations -
I am embarrassed about my life -
Guessing woman are only grossed out --
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Tasmania5454Contributor
What/would a woman go near a person who has had failed relations -
I am embarrassed about my life -
Guessing woman are only grossed out --
In response to: Do most of us find love or settle?
Nala2022Moderator
Hi @Tasmania5454,
It sounds like you're carrying a lot of embarrassment and self-doubt around your past relationships. When things haven't worked out the way we'd hoped, it can be easy to start questioning ourselves and wondering how other people might see us
Having had relationships that didn't work out doesn't make you any less worthy of love, connection or being cared about. Everyone has a history, and your past experiences don't define who you are or what future relationships might look like
If you ever feel like you'd like some support to work through some of these feelings, Relationships Australia may also be worth looking into: https://www.relationships.org.au/
I'm glad you reached out and shared how you're feeling with the community 😊
In response to: Do most of us find love or settle?
AppleblossomSenior Contributor
@Tasmania5454 Many women have their own failed relationships including friendships with other women. Seems that big tek did not really help us all get along better.
Take Care and dont personalise everything. Often it really is them....
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