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Recognition for the work that carers do

Recognition for the work that carers do

Hello people in Carers Forum Land. I've never ventured over here from the lived experience forum and I'm feeling all shy. However, this article landed in my inbox this morning and I thought it would be of interest over here. I don't actually have any family or friends myself, but I know that carers do an amazing job in supporting those that they love. If anyone here does happen to feel like adopting someone with Borderline Personality Disorder, I'm open to it. I mean, what could be more fun than having someone (or another someone) with BPD in your life! Here's the link to the article: http://theconversation.com/heres-how-much-it-would-cost-the-government-to-pay-everyone-who-takes-care-of-family-with-mental-illness-74760?utm_medium=email&utm_campaign=Latest%20from%20The%20Conversation%20for%20March%2023%202017%20-%2070265274&utm_content=Latest%20from%20The%20Conversation%20for%20March%2023%202017%20-%2070265274+CID_3e0041eadb6d09286518efab7811c5a4&utm_source=campaign_monitor&utm_term=Heres%20how%20much%20it%20would%20cost%20the%20government%20to%20pay%20everyone%20who%20takes%20care%20of%20family%20with%20mental%20illness

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Hi @Former-Member,

How is your week going? Mine is super quiet...and that's ok. I am finding that as the years go by and I become increasingly reclusive, the difference between this week and every other week of the year is getting less and less. I barely have any human contact anyway, so the fact that the world stops for this week is less noticable to me than it used to be.

I hope you and Mr Darcy are having a peaceful week.

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@Phoenix_Rising

Am assuming yoga and violin are in remission for a few weeks.

If there is a topic you would like to discuss I am happy to do so.

Things a bit rough here at present.

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Happy new year @Phoenix_Rising
Do you ever look at the ICD-10 in relation to diagnosis rather than DSM?
Darcy

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Big wave @Phoenix_Rising

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*big wave = large lady moving arms in friendly gesture

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I haven’t seen this thread before but I sure could do with some.....
I have a tricky MI but I seem to be the one doing all the caring for others.
Got up early to drive to my mothers as she usually goes to the hairdressers today. Greeted with a face like thunder, “you’re too early” and refuses to go.
That’s fine, I’ll do her shopping though.
Her irritability is getting worse.
On the home front, my partner is no better...

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@Phoenix_Rising
Checking in
Darcy

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Half listened to this talk about grief while working @Phoenix_ Rising need to re-listen to it properly.

https://youtu.be/TxSd8f2Utpk

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Hi @Catcakes,

Fancy bumping into you over here. I don't venture into Carer's world too much, although there are quite a few other people who hop between Lived Experience town and Carer's town quite a bit. @Faith-and-Hope and @Shaz51 are two who spring to mind. Have you met @Former-Member before? Darcy, this is Catcakes, Catcakes this is Darcy.

@Former-Member, in answer to your question, I am familiar with the ICD-10, but for whatever reason (probably because we are so heavily influenced by the USA) the DSM-V still rules supreme in Australia. We never even looked at the ICD-10 during my degree. We were told of its existence, but it was always very much DSM all the way! I think the ICD-10 is used a lot more in Europe. It is certainly a much simpler system! The DSM-V is 945 pages long!!!! That's a LOT of box ticking! The amount of overlap between disorders etc is absurd. No wonder so many people end up getting a different diagnosis from every MH professional they see - grrrrrrrrrrr.

I missed being at FF last night. I just couldn't find it in myself to get there. I have been SUPER struggling since my turtle whisperer dumped me. That, combined with the Forum Land Tsunami (which is still in the process of being worked through) has really fried my brain. I still can't believe my turtle whisperer dumped me two days before I was due to see TTT. So utterly crushing.

Hmmm...it just occurred to me, I'm wondering if we should start a new thread? I can suddenly hear NikNik in my brain telling me to work at keeping threads on track...and this one went off track pretty much on page one.

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Thanks @Phoenix_Rising for noticing.
I was over here looking for some inspiration as I am also a carer for my Mum and to a lesser degree now for my partner recovering from a serious accident. Both require a lot of psychological care .
Hi @Former-Member , I have seen you around.
I thought of you reading the paper yesterday as there was a story about sea turtles being washed up stunned and freezing in the northern hemisphere 😬❄️❄️❄️
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