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Riding a wave

Riding a wave

Hi all,

@CherryBomb, @Former-Member or any other @Former-Member floating around Forum Land, will you ride a wave with me? I thought I would be fine doing something...but it turns out that the something has made my big feelings BIG and now I'm in a pickle...and there's nothing worse than a pickled turtle! I'm going to go and snuggle in my bed so I probably won't actually respond to you, but it will still super help me to know that I am not utterly alone on the wave. I don't want to tag anyone else because I don't want anyone to feel they need to respond. Thank you in advance for riding with me.

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Hi @Phoenix_Rising

KobeCat here, overnight moderator ... just checking in and letting you know I am riding the wave with you tonight... Wishing you all sweet dreams.

Kobe x

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@Former-Member @Former-Member @Former-Member are you out on the ocean today? I've just suddenly got swamped with giant missing (P) feelings for no particular reason. It's like my brain has started doing the "this time last week..." thing. This time last week (P) was here...and now he is not.

I am trying super hard to concentrate on getting things done that I need to do, and it is superly duperly hard with my brain filled up with big grief feelings. I am super glad that I can always find someone to float in the ocean with me in Forum Land.

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@Phoenix_Rising

I am not sure that I can be of any help...

I can reassure you that I know about grief....

random reminders of (p) will rise to the surface.......without warning at times

I will wait here with you until someone comes if that makes it easier....

if you prefer someone more familiar I will not be offended if you wish me to leave

just sitting....not judging

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Me too @Phoenix_Rising .....

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Hi @Phoenix_Rising 🙂

I'm watching out over the ocean this afternoon.

Here if you need.

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great to see you here @Faith-and-Hope

I will leave you two together ......respecting your privacy at such a difficult time

take care

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Thinking of you @Phoenix_Rising. As I look over at my dog laying peacefully on the sofa and imagine life without her, I can glimpse a little of the pain you must be going through.

Pets can be such a huge part of our life that when they are gone, a giant chasm appears.

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There is no need to leave because I am here @Former-Member .... unless you want to .....

There are often many others around who don't speak up on a thread because they can see that others are there, and I appreciate that that might be what you are doing ...

💕

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I am ok with it @Faith-and-Hope

I just wanted to let Phoenix_Rising know that I respected her privacy.....

thank you for the inclusion though...does feel nice

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😊💕 @Former-Member ....
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