Hello @Scaredatnight 💛
Thank you so much for sharing this with us. Whilst I haven't experienced what you are going through specifically, I absolutely understand night time anxiety and how scary that can feel. It sounds like not having your partner there for extended periods is really tough, especially with a newborn to take care of.
I am curious to know if you have any professional supports lined up at the moment?
And do you have any safe or supportive people you can turn to right now?
I am also wondering if you can become curious about what fear might be underneath these thought patterns? My instinct is that this might be the very thing that needs your attention and nurturing right now.
And lastly, I wonder what might help to create a sense of safety for you tonight? Do you have any go-to self-care activities? For example, a warm shower, some music, a favourite TV show, or a cozy blanket?
Thank you for your lovely support @Misty7 @Dimity, I am going to tag in @MissGremlin, who I think would be wonderful to speak about this with too. 🥰