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Life on anti-psychotics - can people actually come off them?

Life on anti-psychotics - can people actually come off them?

Hi friends,

I was hoping to tap the wisdom of someone who has been on anti-psychotics, or supported a loved one on them.

My partner was really unwell with paranoid delusions for two years. He was eventually involuntarily admitted to hospital and is now on monthly anti psychotics, as ordered by the hospital.

The meds stopped the delusions in their tracks, but the side-effects are a whole new 'difficult' to live with. He used to be really lively, fun and chatty. Now he's quite blunted, dissociated and doesn't have the same enthusiasm for things he used to love. It's so sad and I feel like im slipping into a bit of a depressed vortex too, because life looks and feels so different now. I'm grateful he's not paranoid anymore, but he's not himself either.

I've tried to ask the hospital doctors what the long term plan is and they are really vague on timelines. I think he feels like he'll be forced to take the meds forever so he feels powerless and zero agency.

While he has stabilised, he hasn't developed full insight yet. For instance he has never acknowledged his diagnosis (delusional disorder), he just says "the doctors think I'm crazy". He never refers to the odd things he used to believe so intensely. It's like he's deleted them from his memory. I wish he was in a state where he was open to processing some of what we both lived through. I feel like if he was open to counselling the doctors would soften their stance on the meds, but he seems very closed off, and I don't want to retraumatise him by raising the topic.

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Re: Life on anti-psychotics - can people actually come off them?

I TOTALLY get you and hear you @Lattepowered

Firstly, so great to see you again as I haven't seen you in a long time.

Side note: As much as we can share personal experiences, when it comes to medication, everyone is different - so in this case, it's of utmost importance that you share you concerns with the prescribing doctor. Perhaps they can look at an alternative med or a lower dosage? Only they will be able to tell you.

It is well known that anti-psychotics have side effects. This is the battle I'm having with my brother in law. He's refusing to take his and just laughs when I point out delusions he is having. However, he is not 'bad' enough to be involuntarily admitted, so I can't do anything for now but sit tight.

If your partner has depot injections, it can be quite strong, and when you first have the injection, it can have a lot of side effects. Over time this wears off....until the next dose.

I guess the question is, do you prefer him to have the paranoia/delusions, or be chirpier person?

It's not easy to answer.

I'm not sure anti-psychotics for paranoia is something you get 'come off'... you can lower the dose, but that's why it's important to ask the prescribing doc.

Sitting with you.

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Re: Life on anti-psychotics - can people actually come off them?

Hi there, sorry to hear that your partner is not themselves. They are probably trying to stabilize your partner at this stage, even though he has blunted emotions. When he is better it would probably be good for him to see a private Psychiatrist who can make recommendations about long term plans and medications. I saw one today online via telehealth called Dokotela. They are pricey but you will get a lot of it back. They might be able to suggest different medications or correct combinations for the blunted emotions. Sorry i do not know if you can come off them, a good psychiatrist will be able to answer this one. Sending you a big hug.

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Re: Life on anti-psychotics - can people actually come off them?

Hi @@

As you alluded to, coming off might happen when they do enough therapy to have coping strategies to deal with the symptoms

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Re: Life on anti-psychotics - can people actually come off them?

Hi @Lattepowered I hear you, as someone living with mh issues and taking antipsychotics.

I don't want to disappoint you or be preachy but in science and medicine people have to distinguish between correlation and causation. Yes people recovering from psychotic illnesses and on antipsychotics seem to battle with blunted affect and anhedonia but is that "side effect" or showing the "negative symptoms " of their/our/my illness. I certainly lost my spark but feel I need to stay with antipsychotics as the edginess of paranoia and incipient mania or full-blown psychosis is in no way comparable to the quick wit, sense of humour and capacity for enjoyment I had prior to my first florid episode. The window of brightness and responsiveness while remaining well seems a narrow target. I've compromised - my psychiatrist allows me to be on a lower maintenance dose over periods of months and years, then increase the meds when vulnerable or becoming symptomatic. It's possible for me as I'm on oral meds not a depot injection. It does entail having fairly close supervision from a longterm and trusted psychiatrist, having reasonable insight into the condition, and willingness to be compliant with recommendations (easier in the earlier stages of relapse).

I wish I could reassure you that the alternatives are clear and that decisions are easy - antipsychotics bad, withdrawal good - but for me I navigate cautiously and do the best I can.

Take care.

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Re: Life on anti-psychotics - can people actually come off them?

@Dimity I know negative symptoms primarily as symptoms of schizophrenia and schizoaffective disorder

The OP speaks about Delusional Disorder. Which to my knowledge doesn't include negative symptoms

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Re: Life on anti-psychotics - can people actually come off them?

@Lattepowered

Hearing you regarding the side effects..

my wife has been on antipsychotic class medications along with anti anxiety and anti depressant for 10+ years. Antidepressants for 10 years before that.

the emotional blunting and lack of any emotional connection is very difficult.

for us the alternative is something to that is far more scary,

Darling asked her dr at last visit about reducing doses, he instead increased one and wants to add another. She is not ok at the moment and wanted to reduce to reduce sedation to hopefully get more energy and motivation for exercise.

side note, for us it is oral and totally voluntary, having limited agency over decisions would be so much harder.


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Re: Life on anti-psychotics - can people actually come off them?

@Lattepowered this has given me my own sight and confidence

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Re: Life on anti-psychotics - can people actually come off them?

Thanks @tyme

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Re: Life on anti-psychotics - can people actually come off them?

Thank you everyone for sharing @Dk5 @Lattepowered @Determined @Dimity Dogman.

This is such an important topic of discussion. I'm always longing to learn more, especially as I'm battling this at home. It's so close to home at the moment.

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Re: Life on anti-psychotics - can people actually come off them?

@Lattepowered @DogMan79 my apologies I'm unfamiliar with delusional disorder.

From what I just read although antipsychotics are used it can be resistant to treatment with medication alone.

But I guess I've become sceptical of clear demarcations between diagnoses as I've seen so many including myself shunted between different labels, and the current tendency for multiple diagnoses, and so I probably overgeneralise through ignorance.

It's interesting how genetics is now showing so many possible markers related to mh conditions, and clustering of markers of diagnoses of conditions previously thought distinct. It's complicated.

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