for all those like me

Hello @Bunniekins dont let it get you down honey. Rumours are always malicious and people dont really know you the way you know yourself. They have inaccurate and tainted impressions fuelled by malice. Most of the time people are more concerned about their own lives, their own problems. They dont have the time to really consider the person they are spreading the distortions of so called "facts" about. You dont know whats going on in the space between these peoples two ears, if you did it would be so far away from the truth. Know that you are a good person and dont allow these rumour mongerers get to you. Live your life in such a way that its a testament to all these peoples lies. Theres a big difference between reputation and character. If people start spreading rumours about others I just tell them I dont want to listen to it.

@SmilingGecko thank you SmilingGecko your words are much appreciated and brought a smile to my face. i really do appreciate yours and @StuF s time this morning means the world to me actually. xxx

Hi @Bunniekins ,

I'm sorry people are saying things that are not true about you.

I'm sorry it has got back to you.

I was slandered some time ago and it felt like it went everywhere and it was horrible. And then when the truth caught up people just laughed as if it was funny. It was very, very painful.

Thinking of you @Bunniekins !

@Realness thank you Realness and @tyme. it does hurt. it is slandering my children too which is what hurts the most. it's my children. i can handle it and have it is my children who are being hurt. the whole situation is quite sad and pathetic really.

Awww @Bunniekins . So so sorry to hear. Must be hard.

We're here for you. This is your forums family

Metoo @Bunniekins

And my son as well. The other half of family jeered at him when he was in primary school and all the way through. A lot of stuck up snobs.

My psychologist says I have been scapegoated. The first one who noticed.

So it is one thing, to be told to pay it no attention, but is has impact.

Hugs Bella

@Appleblossom hey Apple thank you for your kind words. i am sorry you went through that with your son it definitely scars you. a scar which does not go away. love you hunny. bun xxx

How are you @Bunniekins ?

@tyme i feel better for getting it out. i have been holding it inside for so long. tbh nothing has changed but that is okay i have it out in the universe. xx