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SuportheCasual Contributor
every one ive ever gotten close to have left me. i have done ever thing i could to talk to people and keep the friends i managed to make but they all ways leave me, no matter how hard i try to fix your friendship
now am at the point where ive lost all hope in ever having a social life
i think ill be alone for ever
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AppleblossomSenior Contributor
Welcome to the forums @Suporthe
I used to be into math and still love cats.
I still have a History of Mathematics on my bookcase, but have moved sideways into music.
@Icecream Hearing you about the issues with superficial interactions. I have been trying all my life for genuine and deeper connections. Some people seem unable to listen, have compassion, or be fair about give and take. I am slowly learning. Taken a while.
@random55 @Shaz51 @Snowie
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SuportheCasual Contributor
I just want to say thanks to ever one who responded,it means so much that you all want out of your way to talk to me.
you've all been amazing help to me and am glad am not alone
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tymeModerator
Welcome to the forums @Suporthe @random55 ,
I hope you find the forums helpful as you navigate some of life's challenges. We're a pretty friendly and supportive bunch! We look forward to seeing you around.
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FairlyvintageCasual Contributor
Hi
I’m a newbie here but just wanted to add support , I’ve just arrived back in Aussie and am finding it very hard to make connections. I did start volunteering at an op shop with my son to support him and also in the hope of making friends . It’s not for everyone and you do get lots of consoling comments about how wonderful it is to have somewhere safe for him to be. As they don’t see me they only see his disabilities
But I’m hopeful that by sticking it out I might make a connection . I’m going to try other volunteering places like museums and RSPCA’s
don’t give up hope
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Shaz51Senior Contributor
Hello and welcome @Fairlyvintage
How are you going today @Suporthe
@tyme
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tymeModerator
Hey @Fairlyvintage ,
Good on you for being there to support your son.
Depending on where you are located and your son's needs, there are some supported workplaces susidised by the government. I know someone who works in one of these workshops and it's incredible how much they support those with additional needs.
Do you have people to support with the caring of your son?
I know it's important that you also get some down time, but I also know that the reality is, many carers just don't have that down time.
Please look after yourself.
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