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Lucas3New Contributor
Um can anyone help me or talk to me about going through a brake up when you got a dog together and she’s took the dog from me and started verbally abusing me I’m not sure what to do right now I feel like ending everything
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liminalzestModerator
Hi @Lucas3
Thank you for your courage in reaching out, it sounds like you're going through a tough time there.
If you can, try to take things moment by moment over the next day or so. Small grounding steps, reaching out for connection, or simply allowing yourself to feel what you feel can all be part of coping.
I encourage you to keep connecting with your peers on the forum and leaning into the community - you’re not alone in this.
We wanted to take this opportunity to welcome you to the forums.
We hope that you find the forums a great place to connect with other members, share stories and ideas, and find the support and connection you deserve.
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MatchaToadPeer Guide
Hey @Lucas3
I am so incredibly sorry to hear you're going through this. Please know that you are not alone, and there is support available for everything you're facing right now - from the heartbreak of the breakup and the situation with your dog and the verbal abuse you have described.
Because things are feeling so heavy for you right now, I want to make sure you have someone professional to talk to immediately who can offer a safe space. The following services are available 24/7:
Regarding the situation with your dog and the verbal abuse, once you feel a bit safer, there are steps that can be taken. In Australia, pets are often considered in property settlements, and there are legal avenues to address verbal harassment.
Please reach out to one of the numbers above to chat with someone who can sit with you in this moment. You don't have to carry this alone.
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Mortimer_3Contributor
Hey @Lucas3
I'm very new here and there are SANE members far better qualified to speak with you, but I do want to say how courageous you are for reaching out during this painful time, we are here for you and there are so many lovely people who I'm sure will jump on with helpful advice. In the meantime, if you need immediate assistance please don't hesitate to contact one of the following:
suicide Call Back Service (1300 659 467)
Beyond Blue (1300 22 4636). Indigenous Australians 13 YARN
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Anonymouse1000Senior Contributor
Hi @Lucas3
How's it going?
I'm a late night forumite.
Going through breakups are tough, it is hard to sometimes see how they are going to be ok in the future.
Trust me, it will be ok. You will get through this, and you will be fine coming out the other side.
I have, like you, lost pets in the breakup of relationships. I had two cats with a partner she took them when we left because I couldn't look after them. It was sad and sometimes I almost catching me calling my current cats their names.
You will get through this, its going to be tough, but you will..
Anonymouse.
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YoungDriller_07Casual Contributor
Hey bro give her the dog, stop talking to her. Rebuild yourself emotionally by doing other activities including exercising. Once you become emotionally strong again you will find another girlfriend to date & hopefully she will be the right one for you. May God Bless us all
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Help us push aside the stigma and discrimination surrounding complex mental health and change the way people talk about, and care for, mental illness.
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