I spent 10 years working in out of home care, starting out as a youth worker in a residential house. It was like the ones mentioned in this article, 4 kids, usually between the age of 12-18, staffed 24/7 on a rotating roster. No mixed gender houses and you’d usually have a house of younger aged kids and then older aged.
it’s been 10 years since I’ve worked there, well actually longer, as I was asked to set up a new house (lots involved in that) and be a temp coordinator of that house and then oversee another houses move, wasn’t given the permanent roles when applying for it, so applied to be a case manager- which I got and then worked more closely with foster kids. But anyways…..
Back then there were a lot of policies and procedures around police involvement. These kids would abscond a lot and we were required to notify and reporting them as a missing person straight away. The police got sick of this very quickly. I was actually told by one police officer that I needed to do my job better. We could touch these kids, like we couldn’t restrain them and stop them from leaving, so how?
property damage was a very frequent occurrence. Which again, the policy was that it was reported to police. Assaulting each other also. There were many avos taken out amongst residents.
I remember after taking a few boys to an nrl game one Friday night, parked on the side of the road for nearly 2hrs as they were fighting, throwing things around the car and it was unsafe for me to drive. I remember one kid smeared poo on all the door handles. Many a shift I would actually cry all the way home. A number of occasions I actually had to call the on call service to have my shift replaced because I couldn’t continue any further cause I didn’t feel safe. One kid just had it in for me.
but the stuff some of these kids had been through is unimaginable. The trauma and abuse, very often from their own parents which eventually resulted in their removal. I once, no twice, had the opportunity to go into facs… or docs…. Or whatever they call themselves now, to go in and read through some of their files. All the records, all the reports leading up to their removals, and it’s really no wonder these kids are so messed up and broken.
i ended up not spending too much time in the resi side of things, much preferred the foster side of it. But that also had its issues too. (Carers just doing it for money, most kids came with a $100 a night pay cause we were intensive care and the constant need to meet our funding numbers and putting kids in placements that weren’t suitable).
these are some of our most vulnerable kids. And just like the mh system, the oohc system is very broken too. I actually bumped into my old big boss late last year and her and a group of others had broken away and started a new type of residential care, the first of its kind of Australia. I don’t know much about it but hopefully it’s a big improvement.
well sorry that’s been so long! But I got so many stories.