Hi @dm1
I am so sorry you're going through this. Navigating the mental health system is difficult enough without feeling ignored, especially when you are holding evidence of mistreatment. It is completely understandable that you feel frustrated and silenced.
In the healthcare system, there are specific escalation pathways designed for exactly this situation - when the internal hospital department stops responding.
I wanted to give you a draft of what you could say when you try contacting them one last time, followed by the external steps you should take if they continue to ignore you.
Since they aren't taking your calls, a paper trail is your best friend. Send this to the hospital's complaints department, which you can find online:
Subject: URGENT: Follow-up on formal complaint - [Your Name] - [Date of Incident]
"Dear Complaints Department,
I am writing to follow up on the formal complaint I lodged regarding an incident at [Unit Name] on [Date of Incident].
I previously spoke with your team, and I was informed that the matter was being taken seriously. However, I have not received any updates, and my recent attempts to follow up via telephone have been unsuccessful.
As I mentioned, I have a 27-minute audio recording of the incident, which I believe is vital to your investigation. Please let me know by [Date/Time] how I can securely submit this evidence and when I can expect a formal status update.
If I do not hear back, I will feel it necessary to escalate the matter to the [State Health Obudsman/Commission] to ensure it is resolved.
Regards,
[Your Name]
[Your Phone Number]"
If the hospital is "ghosting" you, it is probably time to stop dealing with them directly. Every state in Australia has an independent body that oversees healthcare complaints. They have the power to force the hospital to respond. I personally have had to contact them, and they were a massive help. Have a look online for the relevant state, e.g. NSW, for the Health Care Complaints Commission (HCCC).
I would also recommend seeking an advocate. You do not have to do this alone. You can contact your state's Mental Health Advocacy Service, or even seek support from a social worker inside or outside the hospital who can advocate on your behalf.