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Support required to hande the stress due to a disputed divorce that has taken years so far without resolution.

RikerCasual Contributor05 Feb 2026, 4:27 pm AEDT

Support required to hande the stress due to a disputed divorce that has taken years so far without resolution.

Hi, I am Riker.
I was born and raised in a South Asian region, and I live in Australia on my own. I got married in 2023 after a short courtship, based on customs. and then found several challenges while living with my wife. She had an undiagnosed OCD, which made our quality of life worse. She left in less than a year and robbed the house of all the precious stuff and planned an exit, leaving my family with a series of false legal battles, none of which were true. This had been going on, and unfortunately, I lost my permanent job due to redundancy, and my parent and I are still navigating a maze of complex challenges. It doesn't let me use my full potential, and I am battling with this every day without having realised that that closure won't be available in the near future. I am hurting and far from being healed. Not sure what support I can get or what would really help me feel better. I am lost and trying to find a way back to being where I was and restart my life somehow.

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liminalzestModerator05 Feb 2026, 6:20 pm AEDT

Re: Support required to hande the stress due to a disputed divorce that has taken years so far without resolution.

Hi there @Riker

Thank you for reaching out to our community, It sounds like you've been going through and navigating a lot of complexity and challenge, and it takes a lot of courage to ask for support, as you have, and come to the right place. I hear you.

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RikerCasual Contributor05 Feb 2026, 7:50 pm AEDT

Re: Support required to hande the stress due to a disputed divorce that has taken years so far without resolution.

Thank you

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tymeModerator05 Feb 2026, 8:10 pm AEDT

Re: Support required to hande the stress due to a disputed divorce that has taken years so far without resolution.

Hi @Riker ,

Thank you for having the courage to reach out and post here. I hear there are ongoing challenges in relation to your situation and at this point, yoy are working towards moving on in life.

Do you have anything you are highly passionate about? Some people love physical activity, others find music helpful, or painting.

Can you think of something you really thrive on?

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RikerCasual Contributor06 Feb 2026, 2:12 pm AEDT

Re: Support required to hande the stress due to a disputed divorce that has taken years so far without resolution.

I lost my job, and relied on driving for Uber to make a little money, but I kept draining that in talking to Astrologers who seemed to have the ability to predict things. I wasn't ready to accept all this, and the police in India are investigating. They initially closed the investigation, finding no wrongdoing on our part, and I had a job to rely on at that time. But then that contract ended, and I am in this mess again after she went back to the police a year and 8 months after the police issued a closure report. So I don't have anything in my life that helps me move on and stay on track. The divorce suit will begin sometime in the next few months and is expected to take 4-5 years, or longer. All this is just due to someone's greed and whatnot. I wish to detach from this and move on, but I could not. not sure how I will be able to put my life together again.

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