hey @Kei! thanks for reaching out. you haven't messed up at all! i know it can take a bit of time to get used to the forums platform, so please do take your time.
joining in on social spaces and other people's threads can be helpful in getting to know others.
here are a few threads to check out:
Fancy a cuppa , Connect now 2 - Page 88 - SANE Forums
What has been your highlight today, no matter how ... - Page 369 - SANE Forums
you can just pop in and say hi! you can tag whoever you'd like (using the @ symbol and then typing the username of others who've recently posted).
i'll also tag a few people who might be able to help you out
@Shaz51 @Chasingsunsets @Snowie @outlander @Oaktree @Appleblossom @creative_writer @flower881 @Lapis_Anteater @MatchaToad @GezzaP