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Flutterbug9’s space

Flutterbug9’s space

After few chats with Tyme earlier this year plus recent posts on different threads about my physical health these year I’ve decided to set up this thread.

background summary

In my early 20’s I was first diagnosed with having OA, third generation to be diagnosed with OA. Im now early 60’s and have moderate to severe OA is various joints, worst being my entire spine. Late last year I started having quite painful OA flare ups which included feeling like one section of my lower back was on fire (caused by inflammation) and struggling to use my hands. All possibly options for treatment/pain relief available to my GP were having little or no impact. Earlier this year I was referred to local pain management clinic with initial appointment with Dr MK, my pain management Dr, in approx June this year.

Since initial appointment with Dr MK I have had diagnostic test which was found to be successful in pin pointing the nerves causing pain in my lumber area and have had RFA which helped reduce some of my pain to a level that deemed the procedure successful.

during post RFA review appointment with Dr MK it was mutually agreed on to continue with referral for infusion which involved me being in pain management ward at local hospital for entire week. Infusion, if successful, to eliminate all pain (or reduce even further pain levels).

First week of December 2025

downside of the infusion can be variety of side effects. I packed (ended up over packing) variety of things for a ‘if I’m affected by all side effects’. Side effects I had a different times during the week - overwhelming need to sleep immediately, unsteady on my feet, headache, blurred vision, feeling of thick head (similar to really bad head cold head), loss of interest in / inability to concentrate on things, teary (all normal side effects). Each evening Dr MK visited me answering any questions, providing reassurance and information in easy to understand words.

discharged from hospital this morning, advised not to drive, handle cash or make important decisions etc for 48hours. Came home feeling tired and bit unsteady on my feet, normal reactions.

ive been home for approx 7hrs by now. Feeling much better within myself. Main thing, feeling almost 100% pain free (getting occasional stab of pain into lumber spinal area. Haven’t feel so good (ie pain free) whilst sitting and working around for approx 12months. It’s not a permanent fix and unknown how long I will have the benefit for. Knowing this is very low priority for me. Still can’t believe my entire spine is pain free. 😍😍

@AlwaysMyself @Bunniekins @Chasingsunsets @Blackcloud @tyme @Jynx @MissGremlin @Cuddlebear @heartathome @Captain24 @REDLINEZ750 @AuntGlow (hoping I’ve tag everyone who has supported me recently, apologies if I have missed anyone. Please feel free to tag if I’ve missed anyone)

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@Flutterbug9 Hello lovely how are you?

Im sorry you’re in pain and can’t have the pain meds due to physical health conditions.

How is your shoulder?

I’ve been sick too. It’s been rough. I can relate to how you are feeling and I’m sending you healing and lots of better times ahead too.

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Hi @Cuddlebear

pain in both shoulders varies from day to day.

ultrasound and X-rays done this morning of my left shoulder and both hands. I’m feeling frustrated at times as I don’t know what I can do that isn’t going to increase the pain or risk increasing the size of the tear.

sorry to hear you have not been well and are going through rough patch. Thinking of you and sending lots of hugs 🤗🤗

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I’m sorry you’ve got pain in both shoulders. Living in pain is terribly hard. I’m here and I do care about how you are.

it’s good you got x rays and ultra sounds today I really hope they provide some answers that can help. How long do you think results will take? Sending lots of love and hugs right back at you.


Yes I’m in constant panic anxiety and distress. I cannot calm at all. Thank you for the kind words and hugs. Really needing them today.

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Results of ultrasound and X-ray estimate to be with my GP in 2 weeks. this time my GP has said they will phone me with the results @Cuddlebear

ultrasound that my GP requested at start of May, based on my comment of I think it might be bursitis, they never phoned me after getting the results that showed the small tear. It could have been approx 2 mths after my GP getting the results that I would have had my regular 3mthly appointment with my GP. Even a few days ago when I saw my GP I was not advised of things to avoid or things that are ok to do.

I have post procedure review in July with my pain management Dr who actually wanted the scans done. I’m looking forward to seeing her and hearing what info she has

I don’t know if I’ve used my arm too much or is only due to the tear (or a combination), what I do know is right arm and hand feeling bit weaker today

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@Cuddlebear @AlwaysMyself @Bunniekins @MissGremlin @EternalFlower

procedure this morning went well and I only had short wait prior to being taken to theatre.

Ive had 3 different types of pain relief medication injected into my right shoulder. Currently occasional stab of pain, not much though. Shoulder feels stiff and numb. Nurses advised numb feeling usually wears off after 3 to 4 hours.

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@Flutterbug9 glad to hear the procedure went well this morning and that you only had a short wait.

Hoping it goes ok once the numb feeling starts to wear off. Thinking of you sweetheart ❤️.

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@Flutterbug9 hey Flutterbug9 good things are going well for you.thinking of you hunny. take good care of yourself. love bunnie xxx

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@Flutterbug9 Hello how are you? I’m so glad procedure went well. That’s a huge relief. I’m hoping that you get relief now that you’ve had. It’s good you’ve got some pain relief too after the procedure.

Please let us know if you want to how you are going.

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@Cuddlebear @Bunniekins @MissGremlin

First step from here is waiting on results of scans taken of my left shoulder and both hands and my gp to advise me what those outcomes are.

I have already requested to be referred to one specific orthopaedic surgery for my hands. Need outcome of X-rays first.

review with pain management Dr mid next month for shoulder and lower spine

atm my mind is still trying to find even one spot of level ground. 2 psychiatrist appointments paid for in one fortnight and no Medicare rebate received as yet for the first one is biting into the finances.

Info from relative who drove me home from the hospital about his own health is sitting very heavy on my mind. Same health condition that ended my mums life. In addition, it appears he may have early signs dementia, he is only 62.

following recommendation from a neighbour, tonight I have started making enquiries about possibly lodging NDIS claim

feeling very overwhelmed and emotionally drowning. Can Feel that I want to cry but nothing happens.

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@Flutterbug9 thinking of you sweet and sending lots of love and hugs ❤️

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