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I have always found gardening to be therapeutic and it has given me great joy. However, after a major crisis with Mr Darcy's health I have not had been able to get back into it. Have other gardeners suffered from a similar hiatus and how have you recovered and got going again?
Darcy
PS have a spot that needs filling any recommendations for a 1m high cool climate white flower plant?
They're not looking to bad @Former-Member I've given them a good soaking, I've put wooden drink crates over them to protect them from direct sun and heat, they're looking ok.
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AppleblossomSenior Contributor
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Terrific @eudemonism
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Unknown userMember
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How does your garden grow @Appleblossom?
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AppleblossomSenior Contributor
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Blossoming @Former-Member
The Dutch Irises are done, but a long wall of various coloured pelargoniums are in fine display, plus lots others.
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Unknown userMember
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Two beautiful souls from church came and worked 2hrs in mums garden here, for free. Really lovely of them.
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Unknown userMember
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Love a bit of colour in the garden @Appleblossom.
How very kind of friends to lend a hand @Former-Member.
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Unknown userMember
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I know @Former-Member, the 3 local brothers don’t, and I can’t be bothered anymore. Well, did a bit WITH them, which was nice (working together), and worked up a sweat, and I got the dishes done & and cleared table to make a cup of tea. Putting empty pots (dozens) on the curb side, and amazed how quick they go, wow. Love the birds in the garden. Mum has a tree canopy covering her backyard these days. It’s beautiful 🌴💕
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AppleblossomSenior Contributor
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Seasons of growth and seasons of grief.
Lovely to hear you had help @Former-Member.
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SmcSenior Contributor
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Hello goodnight peoples... our town agricultural show is on tomorrow, so I've spent the evening wandering around the garden collecting the flowers and vegs I'm entering. Still have to grab a few things in the morning before taking them up to the Homecrafts Pavillion for judging, so I'd better go get some shuteye.
Am entering my first ever successful Delphinium spike. Oooh it was a bit sad cutting it off. The judge had jolly well better like it!
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I hope so too, do let us know how you get on @Smc.
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