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Self care by growing a garden

Self care by growing a garden

A SOS to any green thumbs out there

I have always found gardening to be therapeutic and it has given me great joy. However, after a major crisis with Mr Darcy's health I have not had been able to get back into it. Have other gardeners suffered from a similar hiatus and how have you recovered and got going again?

Darcy

PS have a spot that needs filling any recommendations for a 1m high cool climate white flower plant?

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Sunshine and warmth! Wow!

I've taken a risk and planted out some tomatoes, a whole month ahead of our local last frost "all clear" date. I'll be keeping an eye on the weather forecasts in case the current warm weather backflips, but all too often I don't get any toms due to the short growing season. It's theoretically possible to get a crop through here, but there's not much leeway if you don't get onto them as early as it's safe to do so, so I'll live dangerously this year and see if it pays off.

I bought a punnet of twelve yellow pear toms and one with six sweet yellow chilli capsicums; half of those are now sitting in Dad's old veg patch up a little further north, and the other half were carefully transported home on the train, in a carry bag. I also stuck in some pumpkin seeds, sunflowers, cosmos and echinacea "up north-ish", some portulaca, lovage and strawberries. The lovage, strawberries and capsicums are in homemade wicking pots; the rest are hopefully tough enough to grow under conditions of almost complete neglect.

I did get a little bit of asparagus from Dad's old patch, a few snowpeas had grown, and there was ample evidence of snails having enjoyed the rest of the plants. Them's the breaks.

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Can't get the yellow pear tomatoes in my neck of the woods @Smc, I have found cherry varieties the best due to our shorter growing season.

Picked up some red lilium bulbs at a garden club function yesterday will see if they are maroon or orange type red in due course, got them planted today so pleased with that.

Grass growing at an astonishing rate - might need to call on @Determined once he has finished his lawn.

Am feeling confident if Mr Darcy remains stable that we can get back on track with the garden.

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Grass growing under the mower here also after after the rain @Former-Member

I'm also looking forward to getting our yard in order in coming weeks. Have done less than bare minimum all year so a lot of catching up to do.

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@Former-Member @Determined .... Yellow Pears are fairly early, so I think they're in with a chance.

The grass here has reached waist high in places, but Hubby with the whippersnipper has reduced a decent part of it down this afternoon.

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Is that a Thelwell @Smc?
Picked up a white pom pom dahlia tuber today and got it planted as well as throwing in some alyssum seeds.

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  1. Hi @Former-Member and @Smc I went to the nursery today too and got some ‘wooly bush’ plants , portulacas, Little succulents called sedums I think and a good old daisy .. then I mowed my lawns with Ms M’s help this morning - a great sense of achievement and then afternoon was planting and watering time - I can’t wait to see them grow ! My manchurian pear tree is fabulous and green right now!

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Hello @Mandy1, @Former-Member, @Smc, @Determined, @Faith-and-Hope

Sounds ike a good day @Mandy1 , Little succulents called sedums, love to see a photo , I have succulents but i don`t know what they are called

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@Former-Member Yep. I've been enjoying Thelwell's cartoons since I was a teenager or younger. I'm not a horsey person though, and that's one of his main themes. He did a lot of other topics too, but the horses are what he's really well known for.

Have fun with the dahlia. I've got one I planted a couple of years ago that's meant to be pinkish-burgundy, but its been struggling so it hasn't flowered. Will the alyssum and the white pompom be growing together? They'd set each other off well.

Our flowers at the moment include a couple of types of poppies, centranthus, assorted bearded irises, calendulas, columbines, French lavender, phlomis, some salvias, some roses, a few sweet peas and snow in summer. Catmint, yarrows, centaureas, senecios, nigellas and buddeias are sending up their flowering stems but haven't quite budded/opened yet. So my garden is very Jeckyll and Hyde... I cringe at all the weeds filling the back yard, and stand gobsmacked at the incredible sea of flowers in the front yard...

Here's some more Thelwell to finish the evening. 'Tis very much my bedtime.

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@Shaz51 Cool I’ll post a pic tomorrow when on my laptop - my phone doesn’t seem to allow photo uploads ??
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