Feeling Invisable to wife

Hi @Heals07

It would be really hard to not be feeling seen by your wife.

I can see that you've acknowledged that you've also pushed her away in the past. I'm wondering if you have been able to have conversations about this? About you feeling as though you've pushed her away, and about how you feel invisible to her sometimes. It sounds like you're both going through some challenging changes and maybe trying to open some clear communication would make navigating it all a bit easier.

It's fantastic that you're putting in the work to be better for yourself, hopefully with time your wife will be able to feel those changes too and be able to give more again.

Hope you're feeling a bit better today

Heals 07

I really know and understand your plight.

I have been living with a stranger called my husband for 20 years.

Yes he says he loves me and that is the extent of the conversation.

I feel for you as it's a lonely and unknown place to be.

First time last week I suggested counciling.

Anyone would think I suggested a holiday on Leprosy Island.

After twenty years of marrige people change don't they?

Can you can bring back that person you fell in love with, I don't know.

But I keep battling on with subtle suggestions hopefully to improve things a little.

All the best,