What has been your highlight today, no matter how big or small? Come share 🫶

@Glisten it's something we need to stay away from unfortunately.

Peanut paste

Looks like Mark Latham needs to keep away from something too. Racing places over East .....

Lol

@Chasingsunsets @Chasingsunsets @AlwaysMyself @ENKELI @Bunniekins @StuF

..cant be on your phone ? or its not $300 job thats been dropped ok 200 times lolo

@Chasingsunsets amazing pics

@ENKELI Its been a down day for me. Was feeling terrible this morning but have picked up a little over the day. With our daughter and my wife home. We spend a lot of time outside talking this afternoon, that kind of helped a bit.

@Chasingsunsets @TAB @PeppyPatti @Glisten @AlwaysMyself

Overall my wife is very supportive, but when i'm down she can get annoyed with me for not responding or taking in what she is telling me, for i'm not present in the moments. She is much better than she used to be though, now she understands how powerless a depressed person can be to change their mood.Yet when i get bad, and especially for more than 2 days, then she can at times get annoyed with me, for not being there for her. Understandable really.

hmm does not sound easy @DownMoreThanUp ive never been in a relationship longer than a year or so,if co-habiting, a week til get told to go lol

relatrionships over rated.so is being complete hermit lol .Hope you find a solution.wife could at least leave you alone

amazing pics @Chasingsunsets

is it walking didtance to beach?

Haha thanks @TAB 😂

@REDLINEZ750 yeah I have one beach I can walk to but depending on which one I want to go to I guess!!
Hows mr pooks going?

Sorry to hear @DownMoreThanUp, sitting with you. Have you been down to the beach recently 🙏

beach 30ks away here like a tidal pool, one 40ks away not much better

I've been spoiled being close to good beaches for years on end over mylife

@Chasingsunsets hateh re name ..lol

@TAB To be honest i cannot tell you how much i love my wife for standing by me. Nor mum, nor dad, or brothers or sisters, and at times not even my children, but my wife stood by me, and loved me through the times i could not love myself.

As a matter of fact she taught the value of love in overcoming my bad life. It is only because of her that i'm around. She refused to let me go though, although i pleaded her (on my knees in front of her at the time,) to let me finish it all. Yet she stubbornly told me to hang on to good, and let go of bad, by being good to me, even though i was not good back in return, for i was angry with her for not giving me permission. So yes although at times she struggles, at that can be difficult for both of us, after Jesus, she has been my greatest support.

@Chasingsunsets @REDLINEZ750 @PeppyPatti @Glisten

After almost 43 years of marriage (counting the days,) i love my wife more now, than i did when we first got married, and she me. So although i know that there are many people badly hurt in relationships, i know marriage does not need to be a bad experience, and can be a good one.👋

Glad to hear it @DownMoreThanUp maybe remember that next time, dunno

@Chasingsunsets No i have not been to the beach for a bit. A beach walk would have been nice. However part of the trouble is that the closest beach has only high parking for two wheel drives, and i had no energy today to climb up and down 100 steps and then still do a beach walk as well.

Part of the trouble being down, i'm almost always physically unwell as well. Nauseous, tense/anxious, tired and drained, even if i had more than 6 hours sleep. Often times it seems, at least nowadays, that my down times, and trauma (mainly manifested as body,) memories coincide.

This means to me to try and learn to deal with the past trauma in a more positive way i did when i got them, while feeling unwell and depressed. Which is proving to be a real challenge, but i know full well both the trauma, as well as depression, are bound to stay. So i will have to learn to deal with them more positively than i have, if i want to have more peaceful times during my down times.