Hi

You know what I've noticed about you? You have very low self-esteem which in turn means you can dig a hole for yourself.

When in actual fact, you have so many strengths that people would long for. @ArraDreaming

So it's' like saying, I'm crap at talking to people so you don't talk to people or you stumble over your words, which then makes it seem like you are not good at talking when in fact, you are more than good!

But yeh I can see what you mean kind of

a set back or feeling of not being adequate really stays with me

Yeppo. Exactly. You gotta stand up, hold your shoulders back and tell you that you CAN do it @ArraDreaming !

Don't we all @ArraDreaming ??? I'm a flop at talking to be honest.

Sometimes I prefer just to listen when I am nervous thats when I don’t speak up, and if I do I stumble and thats when I decide I look too much like an idiot to socialise

I feel like I always want to say things in my head but I am too worried about how to say it and what words to use, if I will be understood, so I just dont @tyme

part of why I find the phone so hard

We need to pump some "I can do it" energy into you @ArraDreaming

Because you CAN do it 🙂