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This thread has been done before...but unfortunately it has fallen foul of the forum bug/s.
So a few of us (like @Bunniekins@TAB ) thought it might be time for a reboot.
The idea is simple - post a clip of whatever music you would like to share with the forums community. Link the clip and tag the member/s you'd like to share it with...
Enough preamble. This clip is a bit different to what I will normally share - The Voice is not normally my thing - but I'm glad I stumbled across it today:
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BunniekinsSenior Contributor
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@Mustang67 Mustang67 you are one of the nicest people on the forum i hope given time that you do learn to be kind to yourself and inturn to love yourself.xxx
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Mustang67Senior Contributor
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@Bunniekins and one more about learning to love yourself. Which I am really bad at.
I think the only time that I might have loved myself and taken the time to look after myself, was when i decided I was going to lose weight in 2001/2002. I was so adamant that the weight was coming off no matter what. I got to the smallest I have ever been since high school. But at the end of my weight loss journey, my partner died, so even more weight came off. And then everyone was saying that I look gaunt or sick. I put weight [edited by moderator] back on and that seemed to satisfy everyone.
But then of course my world had just fallen apart, and it was all downhill from there. And here I am 23 years later, and I still haven't recovered.
Every time I hear this song https://youtu.be/7iEQ-1ZFHec?si=uBo95vHlViZ9AwHE it makes me think of him. I could totally feel his spirt around me, until I was told by my life coach (who was psychic) that I was holding him here, and I needed to let him go, so he could cross over. That was 9 years after his passing. Once I did that, I no longer felt him. To me, being able to feel him, was my comfort. But I was being selfish. He needed to cross over.
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BunniekinsSenior Contributor
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@Mustang67 i have never met my soul mate. i cant even imagine what it would be like to lose him. i am very sorry for your loss.
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Mustang67Senior Contributor
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TW: discusses domestic violence and abuse
Thanks @Bunniekins In the beginning I truly thought he was my soul mate. I was so in love with him, and at first it felt like a fairy tale.
After the 5 year mark, this took a turn for the worst and he became physically & mentally abusive towards me. And at that stage of our relationship, I knew within my heart that the relationship was going to end with one of us dying. But I really thought that it was going to be me. And I was ok with that. Anything to get out of the situation that I found myself in.
After that relationship I had two more partners that were abusive in someway or another. But it all came to a head when I charged the latest partner, and he ended up serving time in prison. That's when I started learning exactly what domestic violence is made up of. And I realised, that my partner that died, was controlling me from the start. I just couldn't see it. I was 21 and thought by him constantly asking where I was going and who I was going with etc, that he was just making sure I was safe because he loved me. But I was wrong.
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REDLINEZ750Senior Contributor
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i sought this one out of play list to hear today i needed its feel i reckon it may have something in it for each of you @Bunniekins@MissGremlin@StuF@Mustang67@ENKELI@Chasingsunsets@AlwaysMyself@heartathome@Glisten@Cuddlebear@PeppiPatty@Shaz51
thanks for tagging me into all the music and thinking of me
May your dreams never die
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BunniekinsSenior Contributor
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@Mustang67 hugs and hugs Mustang67. wwhat a journay you have been on sweetheart. i am privledged to have met you and i would count you as one of my friends on Sane forums. if ever you need to talk i am here hunny. love to you xxx
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