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Ask Anything Monday!

Ask Anything Monday!

Hi all,

Find this week's question here

Struggling to ask a question on the forums? We find members are sometimes hesitant. Sometimes it’s because they feel a bit nervous, or perhaps they’re newer members and not sure where to start.

We want to give you the opportunity to ask us anything without facing these potential barriers on Ask Anything Monday.

This is how it works:

  • Email your mental health related question to team@saneforums.org
  • Every Monday the team at SANE Forums will collate the questions that come into our inbox and post them in this thread. We will not attach your name or username to the question. This means that no one will know who has asked what questions.
  • Other moderators and members will answer the question for you throughout the week
  • A new set of questions will be posted the following Monday.

Anyone can send us through a question anonymously, so please, don’t hold back!

Please keep an eye on the thread, even if you haven’t submitted a question, you may be able to provide support or advice for another member.

Nik

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I would suggest speaking with your doctor. They will be able to refer you to a Psychologist who may be able to give you someinsight into why you are feeling the way you feel.

I do think it is important for your family and friends to know how you are feeling and that you are wanting and willing to accept help. I know that it is hard to as for help. I still struggle to ask myself at times, but let me tell you. It does make things so much easier when you have people around you to support you and lend an ear at times.

Please at least think about seeking some professional advice. The may have some thoughts and ideas on how to approach the subject with your family, friends and maybe even your employer.

Good Luck to you,

Just Anxious.

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welcome to the forum ,

@Justanxious I agree with what you said , very good advice

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Happy Monday everyone!

A bit THANK YOU to @Shaz51 and @Justanxious for your input last week.

This week's question:

I would like to know how much research has been done with relation to hormone levels and depression anxiety. I am menopausal and my anxiety/depression goes hand in hand when my HRT is not working. I have depression all my life and anxiety more so since I become peri menopausal. Also suffered PMT severely prior up that for a week a month.

Thank you

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Why do MH community case managers drop clients off books when they still need help?

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hi , welcome to the foum

that is a very good question

hormone levels and depression anxiety. yes I think they woulld increase Anxiety

Yes @Former-Member, Why do they do that !!!

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I think it is a complex issue, involving big changes in hormone levels exacerbating symptoms and also where you are at with your external stressors in life stage, plus any pre-existing conditions. The people who might have some idea, but not absolute answers I am guessing are: endocrinologists and psychiatrists (who have medical as well and psychological training) For me it has been tough, important to have an assessment for suitability for HRT I think and weigh up risks and benefits, new research is out, but I can't take due to health reasons, I choose to employ meditation, attempts at a healthy diet and medication for anxiety, using art, music, breathing exercises and reading up on what to expect/shared experiences on reputable web sites and mindfulness The journey is different for everyone though. It is a pretty significant milestone, one that can be a surprise! Goodluck.

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As a former case manager for MH we had a 2 yr funding window before clients had to be exited. There was not much room to extend that. Sadly it is all about government funding quite often and high demand of people on waitlists in the queue behind you. Simple answer: ask them why you have been exited and if you can be put on another programme or if there is some way to get further support.

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Happy Monday everyone!

A big thank you to @cg02020 @Shaz51 for addressing last week's question.

This week's Ask Anything Monday question is:

I've struggled with anxiety and depression for a long time. But it wasn't until my mid 20s when I was diagnosed with panic disorder and depressive psychosis.

Recently, I've made many changes in my life that help promote my wellbeing. However, I'm still struggling to build a support network that will help me when I start to feel anxious and depressed.

Many of my friends sympathise with my circumstances, but they have said themselves they don't understand and wish they could help me more. They have good hearts, but they just don't do or say the right things when I'm going downhill.

Seeing my psychologist helps tremendously, but I can only go once a week. I'm rather frustrated because the last thing I'd want is to relapse into a psychotic episode and have it interfere with my work. It has happened before, and the results were not pleasant.

Who do you consider your 'support network' and how do I find them?

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I have a chatroom full of mentally ill friends that relate with each other. I'm not sure if I can say about it here, so I won't, but I'll just say that it exists.

There's so many ways to have a support network.

My support network is having my nurse check in with me every week or two, and with the chatroom. My parents supports, but doesn't understand. Unfortunately, I don't really know how to prevent psychotic relapses. I get one almost for sure every year, and it has affected my life. However, I say that you should TRY to learn how to identify what's real and what's fake. For example, I have a metallic taste when I hallunicate.

Good luck. 🙂

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I really struggle with this.
A lot.
I'm lucky that I have a great psychiatrist and GP and when I have been ill they have been very supportive.

I really struggle with admitting that I'm feeling ill and getting support. I hate admitting that I'm unwell and I feel like a failure. I also find that my family support feels like nagging. They mean well, but it just adds to the burdens I have to carry.

I've found that some people just 'get' it. And even if they don't get my illness, they are supportive in their own way. I have a friend with a lovely family that I am always welcome to come visit. When I'm feeling really ill, even though we never really talk about my illness, being able to be in a sane and normal environment when my brain is crazy really helps.
I have lost a lot of friends when I was ill and reaching out for support, so I guess you need to be careful on who you lean on and how hard.
I also use these forums when I'm not feeling well and I just need to vent. There are lots of supportive people online and I know there are other chat groups out there if that may help. There are also support groups you can meet up with in your local area that I've heard about. I'm not sure where to find these groups now, but other sane users might know how to find out about where they are?
I guess don't get too stressed if your friends and family don't understand. They don't need to understand to help and there are lots of people out there that do understand.
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