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Hi @Dimity, new thread with new heading … thinking this might be best.
I now know we both have lots of things off the forums that are on our minds and causing concerns/worries for respective person. Not going into things I’m trying to deal with apart from to say they are causing emotion upsets for me.
Something I don’t want to talk about is plants, flowers etc. sensitive topic due to not knowing when or if I’ll even get garden in backyard.

Your back fence, if prefer I don’t ask about it, Please let me know

i feel you prefer I cease mentioning my physical health issues and upcoming treatments I’m to have, apology if this is not the case.
there are things related to the forums which have left me feeling unwanted and that I don’t belong. None of these relate to you.

here if you feel up to talking

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@Dimity only area I don’t have things to sort etc is open plan lounge, kitchen, dining area. One of the various things on the wish list is small garden shed.

my hospital stays cost me zero, thank goodness. It’s all the medical procedures health insurance only partly covers.

Im years away from being eligible to apply for My Aged Care. Various other people here have found it easier to organise and pay for their own cleaner. Hoping you current home help is pleasant to deal with and knows what they are doing. How does Tiger react with you having home help? My 2 most likely would hide.

knitting group sounds nice option for connecting with people. You will find things you enjoy and/or help with connection when time is right. Maybe there are things at home you might find to do that bring you enjoyment…. Maybe taking time to enjoy music or songs (just a thought).

I used to knit bunny rug size blankets that were donated and used for wildlife rescue groups. Were made in 8ply, only ply I could clearly see for quite awhile.

I gave lot of that wool to knitting group here, they knit and donate clothing and toys to hospitals, some charity groups.

my biggest issue with my craft things is the amount I’ve got. Started and unstarted counted cross stitch, knitting, diamond art, paint by numbers. So many different items I’ve started over the years and haven’t finished for various reasons.

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So much for decluttering the garage. Woman who used to come to card making group (she tried taking over in fact) this morning sent her hubby to ask where certain items are so she can put them with things she has been given and sell them.

things she is wanting are part of items which were donated to the card making group. Going out soon to bring them out of cupboard in craft room and put everything in my garage….. 3 folding crate hand trolley.

Last day of card making group was about 1yr ago and this woman still sticking her nose in where it doesn’t belong, trying to control things. Was a good morning prior to this, feeling angry now

@Dimity

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Is she claiming ownership of the stuff @Former-Member ? It's a bit rough if you'd inherited the stuff from the group when it folded especially if you were a leader of the group.

The only good thing might be if it frees up some space for you.

Today I had a neighbour wanting to dump a cat with 3 kittens on me. I feel sorry for them but I really couldn't accept responsibility. And I have no transport, and everything's closed for the public holiday. I said no and suggested 4 places to contact. I saw a cat yesterday that might have been the mother. It was a light brown tabby that looked quite small and young. It ran from my doorstep, where I keep a water bowl for Tiger (although he doesn't go out much).

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I’m probably being pedantic and pig headed @Dimity, oh well so be it. The day this woman found out there was no financial support for the group, at end of the time slot she announced she was quitting as “has a business to run and does have time to run card making classes”. When staff in the office here found out she had joined the card making group they told me she is not to be trusted and likes having things her way.

Cupboard where I found the crate trolleys there is now a lot of things that belong to art and craft group. I’ll go through everything I brought home and will donate to the craft group anything that they might be able to use that is not suitable for card making.

Was windy and but cool at croquet this morning, was a fun game today with lots of laughter. To top off the morning, my team won against a very good team.

More clutter this afternoon after my shopping trip. Went out to only buy couple circular needles and a knitting bag. These plus X number new balls of 8ply currently sitting in garage. I’ll start a cushion cover in next week and put in my case. I usually get easily bored in hospital, even if only there for one night

apart from couple last minute items, case is fully packed this time. Last year I was packing last minute, forgot to pack majority of my meds. Thank goodness was only an overnight stay. Need to remember to take my walking stick this time, forgot last time which was a mistake

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The croquet sounds good @Former-Member .

I should try to find my knitting patterns for soft toys.

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@Dimity One of my neighbours knits teddy bears for emergency services to use with children. Has said she finds it relaxing plus making things for others gives you lots of enjoyment.


lots of group activities here to choose to do …… croquet, cards, trivia, craft groups, mahjong, lawn bowls, plus others. Also gym, swimming pool, library, table tennis, plus other things to do

weeds in back yard need tending to plus need to focus on housework.

hoping you have a pleasant weekend and are able to take a break from your paperwork

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I haven't knitted toys for over 20 years @Former-Member but I agree it was satisfying.

You're lucky to have so many activities to choose from. There's very little here I know of that's available and accessible.

I made an effort to get through some chores and collated paperwork today. I walked a bit further than usual. The garden needs work but I haven't got to it for a while.. The dwarf snapdragons are pretty.

I've booked Tiger in for his arthritis injection.

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Hi @Dimity @Former-Member @NatureLover ,

How are you going? I'm thinking of you all.

Seems like we haven't caught up in a while.

@Former-Member , how's your pain management support going?

@Dimity , I"m mindful you were going through a tough issue recently.

@NatureLover are you managing better with the warmer days?

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Hello @tyme nice to see you.

My issues are still simmering, haven't been resolved yet. I'm trying to keep a lid on my anxiety and just hope things work out. I'm trying to figure out what to do as I go along.

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Thanks, @tyme . My S.A.D. doesn't seem as bad as in previous years. It will probably last for another month though. It's not the warmth that matters, but the light.

Hope all is well with you.

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