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Exam fail

Exam fail

I'm so down.

Feeling stupid.

My exam was so hard. I didn't finish it in time, I got everything muddled.

I know I crammed but most of the exam was on classwork from last 2 weeks so there wasn't much time with other unit assessments and work.

I have read the book 2x, did the lectures 2 times, did the quizzes 2 or 3 times yet I just don't get the concepts.

I need this unit

I feel dumb. Blocked. Too old and stressed for this sh#t.

I feel if I don't get this degree that I would of wasted 5 years of my life. Maybe I have. None of my friends or family are supporting me. I'm alone.

I just feel defeated tonight. I can't cope with failure.

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@Messylife I wanted to stop by and say hi.

When I was at Uni, I started in a combined Bachelor of Arts/Law degree with a double major in History and Ancient Civilisations. I got three years into a five year law degree before things kind of fell apart.

I lost both of my grandparents within a year of each other. This caused a pretty big decline in my own mental health. I would go to Uni because I travelled with my Mum, but couldn't get myself to class. I would hide out in the computer lab all day. After so many missed classes, my Criminal Law lecturer called me in for a meeting and told me that he wouldn't allow me to sit my exams. I tried to make a case for myself, asking for help because I was grieving and I was struggling with my own mental health. He wouldn't budge, nor would he help me. I sat my other exams and just scraped by - but I passed. But because I wasn't allowed to sit my Criminal Law exam, I had failed that year of my Law degree and couldn't continue.

I was pretty devastated and it was a pivotal transition for me. I decided to finish my Arts degree and start a Post Grad teaching degree.

I'm a teacher now, but I have many other qualifications and certifications up my sleeve.

I guess over the years, one thing I've learned is that there is always an opportunity to pivot, to learn something new, to try something new. You get to design the course of your life, your career and who and what you wish to be.

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@NightFury , Thankyou

I need to constantly remind myself failure is part of life's path.

Nobody has noticed my success so why would they care about my failures!

I don't blame anybody else.

It's a self struggle with the brain.

As a teacher, I'm sure you see it every day.

I'm mucking in today with 4 essays to write.

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10 more months

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@Messylife 10 more months until? Graduation?

I love reading your thoughts because you have the insight to separate how you feel / self-talk from what you *intellectually* and more objectively know also! 🥰

Everyone "fails" sometimes. I prefer to call them "mistakes". And mistakes are OK - the important thing is what we do after --- do we learn and adjust? Or do we hide in shame and fester emotionally? I can see you are opting for the learn and adjust. 😊

@NightFury i am so sorry for your experience with that law subject lecturer. But I am so glad to hear you were able to still do your other half of the degree to get your teaching quals and pivot to that career. ❤️ resilience and adaptability. ❤️

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10 more months! I want to celebrate this with you! @Messylife

Is that okay?

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