Tabaluga's II

@TAB hey tabby, yea she probably should realise she is intruding staying four months a year like her own holiday house and sleep in my room while I sleep in a lesser room as being nice to her. She is in her fifties. She probably should at least discussed and asked me before she book the ticket and just inform my mother that she is coming ha

well you could at least keep your room @Meowmy yes, guess just about yr mother not you.

hope you can work it out

@TAB hey tabby, mum has dementia a bit. I am responsible for her. I need to be able to manage the household on my terms. Being a guest not realising that is crazy ha ha

just tell them exactly how you feel @Meowmy maybe can work it out, maybe not.Should not be your problem

@TAB hey tabby, she is not coming to stay with us anymore as I already told her to stay with the other cousin. Ha.All good. Relief

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Very Good 👍 @Meowmy I wasn't sure. Well Done . Not easy w MH and silly people sometimes

@TAB hey tabby, thanks for support. Guess MH was directly end result of my parents doing. Now mum is old and she tries to manipulate with relatives to be pampered her way while she can't get that with me or brother. The only way to deal with these people is to get better mentally.ha.

its not easy @Meowmy . Sometimes when dont have answers or things seem too hard, I ask myself what others like sister etc would do in that situation ie people with an ego and dont put themselves last lol

@TAB hey tabby, lost my post