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Tabaluga's II

TABSenior Contributor15 July 2025, 3:56 pm AEST

Tabaluga's II

since seems old tab thread has cancer, time for Tabby's II lol

@Meowmy @StuF @Oaktree @Bill16 @ENKELI @Glisten @Bunniekins

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Bill16Senior Contributor20 July 2025, 5:04 pm AEST

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whats cracking forum crew @Meowmy @TAB @StuF @ENKELI @Bunniekins @Jacques @Glisten @PeppiPatty @avant-garde @MissGremlin @Oaktree @Shaz51 and anyone i forgot,hope your days are goin good

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StuFSenior Contributor20 July 2025, 5:25 pm AEST

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Hey @Bill16

We had sister and bro in law (plus dog!) visit for lunch. Which is always good.

How are you?

(Website is rather frustrating just now, so chat is somewhat broken)

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PeppyPattiSenior Contributor20 July 2025, 5:25 pm AEST

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Well my thread isn't working

So @ENKELI

This is to you however first -

Hi @Bill16 @Glisten

I'm having a great day. I'm in ( darling ) Dalkeith Darling eating Chinese .........in this very expensive area sitting in the house falling down around us....

My husband's mother doesn't care about keeping up with the Jones.

Mmmm

@Bunniekins @ENKELI @Meowmy @TAB

@Shaz51 @Oaktree

Dear @ENKELI

I'm so sorry you're going through this. What your ex-friend and "S" are doing is horrible.

It's true. This is as awful as what iv fought for years.

My story is different but the same ending.

We just shouldn't engage.

. I've spent 40 years in therapy dealing with a mother who has narcissistic and borderline traits. One of the hardest lessons I've learned is that some people simply cannot help themselves when it comes to causing pain or controlling others

Even, as I'm learning, when they are physically sick.

They just have to make you feel bad. . Like me, you have had to work very hard to be where you are.

My therapist eventually helped me see that the only way to protect my own sanity and peace was to keep her away. It sounds like what your ex-friend is doing is a form of emotional bullying and harassment – a need to control and hurt you because she can't cope with losing you on your terms.

What You Can Do:

Stop the Attack:

Report the Dating Site Accounts: Even if you can't log in, most legitimate dating sites have a "report abuse" or "report a profile" option.

Without putting myself down - I have no idea how to do computers but I think you do ??

I believe in you. Me and many people on Sane forums are holding your hand. Can you hold mine ? I need it too

To not react

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Unknown userMember20 July 2025, 5:29 pm AEST

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hmmm I just had a post support from this discussion on page 36....... weird, especially as the comments didn't load for that page. I hope the page isn't up to any shenanigans!