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It’s been so lovely being on the forums, but I’m not sure if I am welcome on here. I will miss you all. I have learnt a lot from you all, I hope you’ve been able to learn something from me
Hello @creative_writer, you are definitely welcome here. I'm sorry if you've been made to feel that you aren't. I'm not sure if I've chatted to you much or at all but know that I'm always here for you if you'd like to chat 😊
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creative_writerSenior Contributor
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I no longer feel safe @Bow. I’m not sure if I belong here anymore. I’m sorry for failing everyone
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creative_writerSenior Contributor
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@MissGremlin I don’t believe we have spoken, but I’ve seen you around. I hope you know you’re amazing. You are too @Bow
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MissGremlinSenior Contributor
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Thankyou @creative_writer. I think we are all amazing here. You haven't failed anyone. I'm sorry that you don't feel safe here.
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Shaz51Senior Contributor
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awwwww @creative_writer , I will miss you soo much my awesome friend 😍
Please stay xx
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creative_writerSenior Contributor
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Honestly I feel like I’ve put myself here. I can’t give too many details. It hurts too much to leave @MissGremlin@Shaz51
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MissGremlinSenior Contributor
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@creative_writer is maybe changing your name an option? We don't want to see you leave so maybe there's a way to make you feel a bit safer again?
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creative_writerSenior Contributor
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@MissGremlin I could do that too. Look maybe I’m overreacting, but I’ve had such a shit day, the smallest thing annoys me. My rejection sensitivity dysphoria is worse
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MissGremlinSenior Contributor
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@creative_writer I'm sorry you have had such a sh!t day. Completely understand that feeling. We are here for you ❤️
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