Hi @Ed1975
I am doing EMDR at the moment and have done CBT in the past.
I have past traumas and c-ptsd. I've also got harmful behaviours.
I found cbt to be helpful. At the time I didn't think it did much and ad in my brain that it wouldn't help. But looking back, I do believe it did help me.
I started emdr last year with my psychologist. I have found it has helped with some of my past traumas. I will say this however, it is very hard to do and extremely triggering for me. I have persisted with it because I have noticed a change.
With both emdr and cbt, they are going to have different effects on us, since we are all different.
I don't believe that they are a magical cure, that all my problems will just disappear. But I do believe that they both have made an impact on my mental health. I guess any little bit is better than nothing.
Oh another thing. When I did CBT I actually did it in a group setting. It was linked to a mental health hospital that I had been a patient at. I'm not sure if there would have been a bigger difference doing in individually, but maybe that might be an option to save some $$
I hope this helps