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Managing thoughts of suicide & self-harm

Battles

MissGremlinSenior Contributor15 Mar 2025, 8:19 pm AEDT

Battles

Hi all, does anyone else just feel like life is just one big sh!t show? It's just one thing after another, constant drama, family issues, money struggles, stress, anxiety it's just always something.

When do things get easier, do things ever change?

I've been through more than i care to think about in my life but today has pushed me to breaking point and it's bringing up alot of bad memories of previous suicide attempts.

I just feel like it's not worth it, it's not worth fighting, not worth hanging on anymore.

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NightFurySenior Contributor07 July 2025, 7:42 pm AEST

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@rav3n @MissGremlin I hate having cold feet but never have cold hands. For me, it's the tip of my nose and my feet. If those things are cold, then it's like...I can't warm up.

Rav3n the kids at work bring handwarmers to school. I find them all over the classroom.

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MissGremlinSenior Contributor07 July 2025, 7:45 pm AEST

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@NightFury the cold nose part i hate.

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MissGremlinSenior Contributor07 July 2025, 7:56 pm AEST

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@NightFury my cup is empty.

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NightFurySenior Contributor07 July 2025, 8:02 pm AEST

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Mine too @MissGremlin.

My head is aching and I probably need to fill my cup. But, I don't know if I want to get up from the couch.

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MissGremlinSenior Contributor07 July 2025, 8:12 pm AEST

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@NightFury i mean my self care cup or whatever is called, the metaphorical one. I'm feeling depleted, need to do some things for myself but not sure what.

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NightFurySenior Contributor07 July 2025, 8:15 pm AEST

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@MissGremlin I did think of that kind of cup too, but wasn't sure which you meant.

What's something you might like to do for yourself?

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MissGremlinSenior Contributor07 July 2025, 8:18 pm AEST

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@NightFury i mean my other cup was empty too but I have an iced coffee now 😊. So that's one thing, I also have some chocolate Bavarian cake 😋

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NightFurySenior Contributor07 July 2025, 8:28 pm AEST

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It sounds like you might be filling both your actual cup and the metaphorical one, right there @MissGremlin

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MissGremlinSenior Contributor07 July 2025, 8:33 pm AEST

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@NightFury i am trying to, I'm cold now though and shaking despite having my pjs on and my oodie dressing gown.

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NightFurySenior Contributor07 July 2025, 8:39 pm AEST

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@MissGremlin blanket time?

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