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DID confirmed. And need a papsmear done by Dr. Freaking out.

DID confirmed. And need a papsmear done by Dr. Freaking out.

Hi Guys, so the heading says most of it. But I'm post menopause. Just had the one off bleed. But my Drs not happy. Sent something away when she tested awhile ago. Don't remember details. But have to have another and since learning of my others. I have had a extra amount of contact from within. But not good at getting info back and forth. Only know During this next papsmear, things might get worse?

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Re: DID confirmed. And need a papsmear done by Dr. Freaking out.

So how can I.make sure I get through Papsmear? Without taking off?

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Re: DID confirmed. And need a papsmear done by Dr. Freaking out.

Hi @Just I am mindful that you have DID otherwise my question might seem weird.

What do you mean by “taking off”? Do you mean physically leaving, or dissociating, or another part being present for cervical smear?

Does the person doing the test know about the DID?

Can you have a support person in the room when you have the cervical test?

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Re: DID confirmed. And need a papsmear done by Dr. Freaking out.

Dissociation would be the way I coped with pap smears in the past @Just

Is there a comfort object you could bring with you to help reorient when it is done?

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Re: DID confirmed. And need a papsmear done by Dr. Freaking out.

hi @Just
nice to meet you
are you able to have a friend or family member go with you? or a support worker?
in the times ive needed to have any testing esp like this done i would take someone with me and talk so that i wouldnt totally dissociate and would also feel safer.
you can also request a nurse be present during the test even if you have a female gp for your comfort if you have no one to be with you.

In response to: Re: DID confirmed. And need a papsmear done by Dr. Freaking out.

Re: DID confirmed. And need a papsmear done by Dr. Freaking out.

Yes my Dr knows about the DID and she is doing it. "If I don't leave, both in switch and in body. Getting up and running. I seem to have more than one that likes doing that.

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Re: DID confirmed. And need a papsmear done by Dr. Freaking out.

I don't have a handle on staying as any"one". I will have my bag of tricks with me. Thankyou. I seem to switch fast, into different, depending. Does anyone know how to stop this.

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Re: DID confirmed. And need a papsmear done by Dr. Freaking out.

No don't have anyone to stay with me. Other than a carer part. Who does seem to turn up but only when it gets really bad.

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Re: DID confirmed. And need a papsmear done by Dr. Freaking out.

@Just remember to put the @so you can alert the person you are replying to. I missed your posts earlier.

Do you have any internal communication between the parts?

Do they speak to each other, are you aware of any of the other parts?

Sometimes the system can organise the part that is most likely to handle the situation to be present at the time.

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Re: DID confirmed. And need a papsmear done by Dr. Freaking out.

Thankyou. I did ask for best part.

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Re: DID confirmed. And need a papsmear done by Dr. Freaking out.

Best part came through. Got papsear done. Ya

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