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Life can be a Pain

Life can be a Pain

Hi @BlueBay@Zoe7@Former-Member@Faith-and-Hope@utopia@oceangirl@TAB@Shaz51@PeppiPatty

I know there are more people I could tag but maybe I will think them up as I go along - actually I already have

I think I need my own thread - mostly my problem is chronic pain syndrome - I damaged my spine with the sporting excesses of my youth - a long time ago now - and I managed to rearrange it when I fell of my pushbike in a wind storm nearly 22 years ago and that seems a long time ago now but there is nothing they can do except treat the pain - and I do have Section 8 medication and I see a pain specialist

And the pain has been worse lately and wears me down and I get fed up and very tired -

I have issues with my mother as well - and although she died 2 years ago I still have bad times now and again - she was abusive and as well as I know myself and her this can get to me at times - and this is another reason I opened my own thread

Then there is TS - my Toxic Sister - she was under my skin for a while but not at the moment

So yesterday I felt so bad when I went to see the doctor about my back pain - and my pain specialist has cut my medication back several times over the last few years and she has gone too far - and I started to tell my doctor - yes - I cope with the pain better since my mother died - but it's driving me crackers atm and so are the memories of my mother

So that's it for now - I have had trouble opening this thread for some reason but now I have - I will run my own story - I would like to think I don't need to but yes - I do

You are all such wonderful supportive people - you are my soft place to land - that is so true

And anyone I have missed I will tag as I go along

Lots of hugs everyone

Dec

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@Appleblossom

Hi Apple - I think I sorted out the tagging problem - I was copying the tags from previous posts and this morning I typed them out separately - it seemed to be okay tagging from copies for a time but maybe there is some kind of genetic fading happening with copies of copies

Two different hospitals - yes - for different procedures but with the same surgeon. Tomorrow it's injections into my facet joints - in my lumbar spine. The same surgeon is doing this.

Last Friday it was my shoulder - and yes - the wait was long - I hadn't had any pain medication and lying on a trolley was better than sitting in a chair but still a tough ask. I am not a cryer but on Friday - not long before I finally got into the theatre I burst into tears and said I couldn't stand it any more - wow - I was in the theatre straight away. I was always aware I could get up and go home whenever I was ready but I wanted to have the procedure done.

The surgeon couldn't do both procedures on the same trip into theatre. As it was I didn't get out of the theatre until after 8.00 pm. Still fasting. I was gobbling down lemonade icy-poles with my right hand and they kept taking it away to take my BP.

Life has all sorts of challenges - I have learned to take most things on the chin but I have been feeling a bit fragile today - I dont want another long wait tomorrow. My surgery is in the morning though - which it normally is with this specialist

Thanks for the gentle hugs - I need them today

Dec

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Hugs and more hugs @Owlunar 💞

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Thanks @Anastasia

I am sure I will feel better after I have had the second procedure tomorrow - maybe then I can stand up straight first thing in the morning

I haven't been reading much around the forum lately so I don't know how things are going with you and your boys - I hope all is reasonable - or okayish - and maybe they are not

Sending my best thoughts

Dec

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Tears when needed. @Owlunar

I take most things on chin 2, We are not really the weaker sex. We both know that. We both have hard headed training as well as caring hearts.

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Tags definitely worked this time @Owlunar We used to be able to copy and paste but that seems not to work on this new platform - joys of tech hey!

Wishing you both swift healing and also hope you got seen to quickly for your injections today.

Hugs and hugs

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Hi @Anastasia @Bunniekins @Emelia8 @Zoe7 @BlueBay @Shaz51 @Appleblossom

@outlander @Clawde

Thanks for the feedback about tagging. I have found it a good idea to copy and paste the list of tags and then copy them and delete the copy from a previous post - perhaps the changes I made by deleting my own name didn't work but it seems it's all okay now

I am feeling better today - after a rough few days. My doctor told me that perhaps I need not have had the two procedures close together and I agree and this won't happen again.

If I was due for a bad day it was on Tuesday - I don't need to write it all down and vent - it all happened and its over. I have been very tired over the last few days and I totally lost my appetite - it's back and I have less pain and even though I have had a busy day I am feeling a bit tired but okay. I went to the supermarket with a support worker and got around without pain or dragging my feet - fantastic - that is great - really great

Thanks for the support everyone - I hope to be in more now the pain is so much less - and I am cooking a stew that smells absolutely fantastic - anyone who feels so inclined is welcome to join me - there is plenty to go around - and I am due for a coffee seeing as I ran out of milk a few days ago and black is okay but I really like it white personally

All the best my good friends

Dec

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@Owlunar 👍💗😊🌷👂👀

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Hugs @Owlunar 💕

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@Owlunar

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a stew sounds very nice my @Owlunar

we are having pizza tonight , something easy xoxo

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