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Life can be a Pain

Life can be a Pain

Hi @BlueBay@Zoe7@Former-Member@Faith-and-Hope@utopia@oceangirl@TAB@Shaz51@PeppiPatty

I know there are more people I could tag but maybe I will think them up as I go along - actually I already have

I think I need my own thread - mostly my problem is chronic pain syndrome - I damaged my spine with the sporting excesses of my youth - a long time ago now - and I managed to rearrange it when I fell of my pushbike in a wind storm nearly 22 years ago and that seems a long time ago now but there is nothing they can do except treat the pain - and I do have Section 8 medication and I see a pain specialist

And the pain has been worse lately and wears me down and I get fed up and very tired -

I have issues with my mother as well - and although she died 2 years ago I still have bad times now and again - she was abusive and as well as I know myself and her this can get to me at times - and this is another reason I opened my own thread

Then there is TS - my Toxic Sister - she was under my skin for a while but not at the moment

So yesterday I felt so bad when I went to see the doctor about my back pain - and my pain specialist has cut my medication back several times over the last few years and she has gone too far - and I started to tell my doctor - yes - I cope with the pain better since my mother died - but it's driving me crackers atm and so are the memories of my mother

So that's it for now - I have had trouble opening this thread for some reason but now I have - I will run my own story - I would like to think I don't need to but yes - I do

You are all such wonderful supportive people - you are my soft place to land - that is so true

And anyone I have missed I will tag as I go along

Lots of hugs everyone

Dec

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Me too. @utopia Just know I am aware of you floating around and still fond.

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Lovely and calming to read about your walk at the lake.--- awwwww @Owlunar , @Appleblossom , that sounds sooooo lovely xoxo

chicken with proscuitto and fetta to roast -- sounds nice @Appleblossom

we are having potato bake and sausages xx

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@Owlunar It’s sounds like you are having a great time, the place sounds lovely make the most of it. ❤️❤️

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❤ @Appleblossom

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Hi @Shaz51 @utopia @Razzle @Appleblossom @BlueBay

It is lovely being able to share how much I am enjoying myself atm and wish you were all here too - it is a lovely place for a holiday

I walked a long way yesterday so I am taking it easy today - having several days is better and less rushed than when I wanted to get back to Companion Cat - I feel I can take a day off and read and just take a stroll later - I could live here happily - and the people are really friendly - I don't think it would be as peaceful during the school holidays though

I feel very much at peace sitting here looking out of the window at the lake and with the sand dunes on the other side - there are swans and pelicans as well as seagulls and some other sea birds - I might buy some bread rolls later and throw them out to the gulls and the other birds come up to see what's happening - the swans are more dignified and will take a scrap if it is handy but don't fight for anything and the pelicans don't bother - also - at low tide there are so many life-forms busy living their lives - I think I enjoy this more than the other holidays I have had over the last 4 years - perhaps because there are few tourists and no high rise buildings.

We could have a beach picnic - using all the sand which is there

Dec

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wow , what a sandwich @Owlunar , I could not get my mouth around that at all xx

Hello @utopia , @Razzle , @Appleblossom

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Hi @Shaz51 @utopia @Razzle @Appleblossom @BlueBay@Zoe7

It was a beautiful morning - glorious - but it has come over cloudy and cool late this afternoon - I am going home tomorrow and the time has gone very quickly but I am ready to go home.

It was a wonderful evening yesterday - the tide was way out - there were 20 or thirty black swans on the lake and the surface was like a mill pond - I sat on the sea wall and watched the sunset and I know I have been here many times before and will do so again - I am sure of that

I bought my daughter a gift - two tiny little cats carved out of crystals - one blue and one white - I got a couple of uncut crystals for myself - I don't always buy myself keepsakes but this time I did

I enjoy remembering my holidays - it's 7 in 3.5 years now - yes - I am thinking about the next one - in late winter - back to the tropics I think - it was great in Cairns - getting away from the Melbourne winter is a priority - I will enjoy planning where to go next

Dec

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It does sound like you have had a wonderful time away @Owlunar The sunset, the swans, the tide being out - all lovely things to remember from your trip.

I remember how much you loved Cairns and it is a perfect winter get away for you so I hope you get back there this winter.

Have a good trip home Dec

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Hi @Owlunar I’m so happy that you’ve had a great week. It sounded so beautiful and peaceful.

I’m actually looking st Cairns or Sunshine Coast for our holiday in October. I like to start paying the accommodation off fortnightly.

Safe travel home ❤️

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