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Life challenges

Life challenges

So I wanted to share a bit about myself and what I'm facing in life.

I've had health issues throughout my life things like arthritis, scoliosis, heart problems etc. Things that have mostly been able to be treated with medications. But last year I was diagnosed with cancer and it's been a hell of a fight ever since. I've undergone several surgeries, chemotherapy, radiation therapy and things were looking ok. But recently I was told that the cancer had spread and I'm probably not going to make it to see my 50th birthday which for me is less than 3 years away.

I haven't got any support around me and this information has been hard for me to process. Whilst I knew my life was on borrowed time it never really sunk in until I was sat down and told the facts.

As you can imagine with everything I've gone through during my life I suffer from mental health issues and recently that's become alot worse. For me I don't want to get to that point where my body is shutting down.

I don't like not being in control but at the moment everything is out of my control, I'm reliant on medical teams, medications, other people trying to work out what the next step is. I'm unsure whether I want to put my body through more chemo or radiation therapy or whether to just let this ride its course. Even doing it it's only going to buy me a little bit more time so is it really worth it or do I just try to enjoy what time I have left.

Anyway that's a bit of my story and what I'm facing. Thanks for reading.

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@Hopeandlove

Those we love don't go away

They walk beside us everyday

Unseen, unheard, but always near

Still loved, still missed and very dear

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The lives you've touched

The hands you've held

Shall not be forgotten

The faith you showed

A grace bestowed

A love forever after

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You will be missed my dear

Thankful that your pain is no more 💙

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Life challenges [Are Over]: In Memory of Hopeandlove

Dear @Hopeandlove ,

Your life's challenges are now over. You have fought a good fight. You have held fast to the end.

Despite the cruelty of this world, you opened up to SANE's Forums Community and trusted us with your story. You trusted us with your love. You trusted us to be with you to the end.

You and your story remains with us - and forever will.

We feel honoured and privileged in that we got to know you at the 11th hour. Although your time with us was short, your life has impacted us all.

You will forever remain with us.

And yes, we will honour your desire and remember you on your birthday on 2nd April by releasing a flower for you on the ocean, river, lake or stream. We will watch it float away and remember you and the difference this Community has made on your life.

We remember you.

@avant-garde @Eve7 @MJG017 @Former-Member @RiverSeal @Till23 @Ru-bee @rav3n @Jynx @Oaktree

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Re: Life challenges [Are Over]: In Memory of Hopeandlove

Dear Forums Family,

At this time, allow yourselves to grieve, whether openly or in private.

We honour the life of Hopeandlove even though she was only with us for a month.

We remember her and the power of connection and belonging.

We remember her love for nature; the sun, the birds, the butterflies, the flowers...and most of all, blue hearts.

Her physical pain is no more, but the memories she has etched on our hearts will remain - forever.

Let's use this space to remember @Hopeandlove , to celebrate her life and to uphold each other.

@avant-garde @Eve7 @MJG017 @Former-Member @Till23 @Oaktree

If you feel you want to speak to someone 1:1, please reach out to: Griefline

Alternatively, SANE's Support Line 1800 187 263 (M-F 10am-6pm AEDT)

If you feel you require crisis support, please reach out to:

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Re: Life challenges [Are Over]: In Memory of Hopeandlove

Thank you to all of you for the kind words for Hopeandlove, I know she would have loved reading everything you have said and seeing the beautiful pictures that you have shared. It was our pleasure to be there for her, she was brave and fought until the end. I'm signing off for the last time but her memory will live on forever 💙.

Thank you for being a beautiful community and supporting each other the way you do, it's beautiful to see.

@tyme @avant-garde @Eve7 @MJG017 @Former-Member @rav3n @Ru-bee @Oaktree @Till23

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Re: Life challenges [Are Over]: In Memory of Hopeandlove

Dear @Hopeandlove,

I'd like to believe that you're at peace, sitting in nature. After our chat on Friday, I went out stargazing from my backyard and was thinking of you. I'm so grateful to have known you, even if it was for a short while, it meant so much to me. I remember when you first joined, how sceptical you were about fitting in with the forums community - regardless of your uncertainty, you stuck around and became apart of the family. I'll never forget your strength, kindness and love for fantasy.

My favourite colour is blue too, and now when I see that colour, it will remind me of you 💙

Sending you so much love,

rav3n

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