Butterfly_loveCasual Contributor
Idk what to do
I can't reach out to anyone about how I'm feeling I'm constantly like this and idk what to do sometimes helplines don't help I just feel so helpless can someone please help me
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Butterfly_loveCasual Contributor
I can't reach out to anyone about how I'm feeling I'm constantly like this and idk what to do sometimes helplines don't help I just feel so helpless can someone please help me
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tymeModerator
True. I was actually doing a lot of weeding today. It was therapeutic lol @Former-Member Even though I usually hate the garden.
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tymeModerator
Heya @Former-Member 🙂
What's happening?
How's everyone @Butterfly_love @MyLifesJourney
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Unknown userMember
Heya @tyme
I'm doing okay today. Just resting, reading, and doing some colouring. Didn't have the energy for much else. Might have a wander to the hardware shop tomorrow. I don't know why but I just love wandering the aisles.
Hope you have recovered from the wobbles. 🫠
Hugs
Snuggles 🥰
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tymeModerator
Hey @Former-Member ,
I'm not at baseline yet, but getting there I guess.
Are you a handy person? I wish I was handy. I think I have the potential, but was just never taught or didn't hang around 'handy' people.
What do you like to do in your free time?
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Unknown userMember
Hi @tyme
Before the internet, fixing things was all about trial and error. But now, thanks to YouTube, I've managed to repair a few things. The tricky part is having the right tools, and unfortunately, that can get expensive.
I read a lot and enjoy listening to audiobook CDs from the library. I also love spending time in the garden, especially early in the morning when everything is quiet. Watching and listening to birds is another favorite pastime, magpies are my favorite.
I don’t really feel the need for friends to hang out with, but I do appreciate reading the forums. It’s nice to know I’m not alone. Making and maintaining friendships has always been a challenge for me.
Thanks for checking in on everybody it makes a difference.
Take care.
Snuggles 🫠
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tymeModerator
Oooo! I've found a match! (Bar the gardening). @Former-Member
As I read your post above, I was nodding, nodding, nodding.... totally agree.
I agree that 'fixing things' is trial and error
I agree that 'fixing things' can get expensive when you don't have the tools
I agree that I don't 'need' friendships or people
I agree that I enjoy the forums
I agree I like being in nature and listening to the birds
I agree that I like reading/listening to books from the library
But no, I don't agree that I enjoy gardening lol.
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Unknown userMember
Hi @tyme
You're definitely a kindred spirit!
Have you had a bad experience with gardening? Last year, wasps nested behind my cladding and I had to call someone to remove them, but the survivors kept stinging me all summer. Apparently, they can recognize faces but thankfully, they’ve moved on!
Cheers,
Snuggles 😊
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tymeModerator
Hey @Former-Member ,
LOL Love the idea of a 'kindred spirit' 🙂
No, I haven't really had a 'bad' experience, but when I think of gardening, I think of hayfever, itchy nose, hives, itchy skin, feeling hot and bothered....
But to be honest, AFTER the gardening is done, I actually feel a sense of achievement - until the weeds grow - again!
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Unknown userMember
Hey @tyme
Yeah it gets a bit like that. I usually have a long bubble bath afterwards.
Anyway I'm off to bed so have a great day tomorrow whatever you have planned. Nice chatting with you.
Snuggles 🥰
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tymeModerator
Chat another day @Former-Member 🙂 Thanks for the company.
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