Hi @chibam, I somewhat agree with you. Though I think it's not bureaucrats, but our broader, capitalism fuelled, society in general.
Consider this: I would say one of the main reasons I and my immediate friend circle and unhappy and mentally unwell are for the following reasons:
- Housing affordability
- Wage stagnation and lack of career aspects
- Cost of living crisis
- Little or no free time to pursue other interests or health concern
And I know this isn't just me and my immediate cohort feeling these issues. Just the other day I saw a report that 43% of Millennials are now working a 2nd job or side hustle to earn extra income - that's the generation that's meant to be in their earning prime right now, by the way.
These factors, naturally, make people unhappy. The problem is we are surrounded by politicians, organisations, medical professionals, etc telling us that if we are unhappy we must be (mentally) unwell. Go to a GP. Get some medication. "Talk about it" with a shrink. In other words you are unwell and you are the outlier and need to be fixed.
No one really considers that maybe there's a good reason we're unhappy. Maybe its not a mental illness to be worried about how to pay next weeks rent, or feeling sad because you decided not to have a family because you're not sure you can provide for them, or being exhausted from working your 2nd job. No - it's drilled into us that unhappy = mental illness = your problem.
100 or so years ago people were forced to work in dangerous jobs, with poor pay, and long hours. They banded together and unionised and won themselves, and us, things like the 8hr work day, weekends off, fairer pay, etc. Maybe we need to do something like that again. Come together and say "No, f*ck off, we're not taking on a 2nd job because you ruined the housing market", "No, we deserve the right to buy a place we call our own and not rent eternally", etc.
The problem is other parts of the system are designed (intentionally or not) to keep us from coming together and organising about this like they did 100 years. There's a book written in the 90s called "Bowling Alone" which tracked the decline in external social clubs like golf, bridge, or bowling clubs. These declines were paired with the advent of radio and TV - it was easier after a long day of work to blob in front of the TV instead of go out and socialise. Now we have internet, TikTok, and Netflix. It's easier to login and whinge about things like I'm doing right now (or to just watch something on a screen) than to organically organise something.
Anyway TL;DR: It's probably legitimately due to external factors that we are unhappy and being diagnosed with a mental illness is covering the problem up and making you think you're the problem so we don't step out of line and try to change anything.