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Send 'smooth-sailing' sentiments to Spirit_Healer!

Send 'smooth-sailing' sentiments to Spirit_Healer!

Hey SANE community,

If we haven't yet interacted here, I'm Spirit_Healer!

I have made many friends along my journey here so far:

@tyme @Oaktree @Shaz51 @BPDSurvivor @creative_writer @The-red-centaur @rav3n @Ru-bee @Jynx @PeppyPatti @MJG017 @Healandlove @Blackcloud @Glisten @Former-Member @Clawde @ArraDreaming

And I'd love to get to know anyone else here, too!

@tyme suggested I make my own thread here, so that my posts don't get lost in the Best Friends Club thread.

You can also find parts of my story here:

Disclosing to a romantic partner

Cluster B Brother

This evening, my ex is about to call me. I haven't spoken properly to him since 11 November 2024, because he ghosted me for 8 weeks from 14 November until early January 2025. Then he met me at a salsa and bachata dance event, said "good to see you" and "did you receive my message?". The second time he said "good to see you" he disappeared. That was half an hour into the salsa social.

I just played another hour or so on the piano, sentimental and romantic pieces by Yiruma, Ryuichi Sakamoto, Chopin and Yanns Tiersen. I even had an audience of two fellow patients in the hospital at one point, before they took their night meds and went to bed. She reassured me that I could continue to play, because she would sleep through my playing.

I'd better get off now, to prepare for the phone call.

Fingers crossed we're both thinking openly, respectfully and clearly.

Afterwards, I'll take my night meds, hit the shower and then hop into bed.

Good night, and thank you, SANE community, in advance for your support!

Spirit_Healer

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Hello @Blackcloud , @Spirit_Healer , @MissGremlin , @Healandlove , @tyme 😊

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hello @Shaz51 how are you doing this evening? how has your day been today so far? 🙂

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I think I am nearly ready for bed @Blackcloud , @Spirit_Healer

Been awake since 1am this morning

Hope I can sleep tonight

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@Shaz51 i hope you're able to get some sleep tonight. usually, when i find myself to be awake during those times at night, i usually find that i'm able to fall back asleep hours later, especially around the 6/7/8am range and then I usually wake up feeling refreshed an hour or two later.

i might head down to the supermarket right now to get some tofu that i wanna cook either for tonight or tomorrow or sometime this weekend. 🙂

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Yes, @Blackcloud , both him and I have the same cultural background as you. And marriage is a big deal for my parents, and I'm guessing his as well.

I've known him for about six months.

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@Spirit_Healer ohhh wait, so does that mean you guys are Cambodians as well then? :0 I see, I see!!! Cambodian born Australian right?

I’m actually of Chinese-Cambodian descent, but it still applies cause technically my family and I are predominantly Cambodian (more Cambodian than Chinese).

then I’m sure you guys will be able to become closer the more time passes and the more you get to know more about each other like at a personal level then 🙂

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Yes, @Blackcloud , we are Cambodian Chinese 😃

I'm excited for what the future holds

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@Spirit_Healer that's great omg!! Well it's my first time knowing that we're both of the same descent 😄 hello my fellow cambodian-chinese!!!

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@Spirit_Healer you dont have to answer this if you don't want to and/or uncomfortable with it, I'm just curious - may i ask if you and the guy are both in your 20s, 30s, etc...? 😊

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I'm in my 30s and he is in his 40s. I was born in Australia and he was born overseas and arrived in Australia as a toddler. There is an age gap that I will need to work with.

Did you say that you're in your 20s?

@Blackcloud

Haha yes, I'm also delighted to have met you here!

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