My husband is being petty

My husband and I had a nikah (a halal Islamic marriage) ever since then we've been having an ongoing low-key fight but it's more like a petty back and forth t!t for tat, I wasn't ready at the time and it was a bit of a misunderstanding on both parts because I wasn't educated and he thought I knew what a nikah was, so I've been referring to him as my boyfriend and he would get mad and then say we were just friends, I didn't understand why he kept doing this until I came across a nikah ceremony on tiktok, I still would've married him if I had known, but unfortunately my childhood friend who I allowed into my home until she got back on her feet unded up being a sociopath and a pathological liar, she convinced me he was cheating on me whislt simultaneously convincing him the same about me, she did break us up for a while and I threw his stuff in the bin, which i regret but hey considering how common it is who wouldn't believe it, anyway now we are on talking terms again and we believe eachother but now we're back to arguing about previous problems, now he's saying I'm not his wife and that he's marrying an Afghan woman back in Iran, but the night before he said this, we had a romantic dinner and spent the night in a hotel room and he told me he was getting a new place for us, so I think he's just being petty again and trying to make me feel how he felt in the beginning, I just want him to propose and I want a wedding, I just want my husband to stop being petty and go back to loving me the way I love him, but he seems to be extremely stubborn and petty, I don't know what to say or do to get us back on track, I don't see myself with anyone else, I don't think I'll ever love anyone the way I love him and I don't want anyone else, I want to start a family with him and grow old together, does anyone have any advice and has anyone dealt with something similar?