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Release the pressure of today and choose self kindness
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Release the pressure of today and choose self kindness
I have chased this holiday for along time and ensured every tradition was ticked off and this year I found my ability to do so was compromised and I had to adjust. It was here I realised that maybe my pursuit was never about the actual occasion but just my inner drive to find happiness and the festive season was just an excuse to optimise it. So here I am without all the festive activities but content because I know the value is in my ability to seek and find happiness whether surrounded or alone.
Todays reflection, whatever today holds for you I hope you find kindness for yourself.
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Spirit_HealerSenior Contributor
Re: Release the pressure of today and choose self kindness
Well said, @Former-Member . My parents invited me out to Hungry Jack's, which was closed, so we went to MacDonald's instead. Nothing wrong with low-key!
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defaultusernameSenior Contributor
Re: Release the pressure of today and choose self kindness
Hi @Former-Member,
I think that's a beautiful way to look at things and a lovely reminder to be kind to ourselves, especially during this stressful time of year.
I hope that you had a good day and wishing you all the best for the new year! 😊
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